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I wish that my husband of 6 years loved me the way that i love him, he used to but now he has changed,alot. he says that he isn't attracted to me anymore because I have put on weight but he still loves me and wants to stay together,hello i had your children and you wont work out with me or support me,why should we stay and be unhappy?! he would rather look at **** all night than have sex with his wife who is ready and willing. life sucks and so does he.
sadgirl1817 sadgirl1817
26-30, F
2 Responses Apr 11, 2007

COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL.WHY DOES HE NOT SUPPORT YOU WITH THE WEIGHT LOSS OR ACCEPT YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE! YOU HAVE KIDS AND THEY TAKE UP ALL YOUR TIME AND ENERGY AND HE TALKS ABOUT NOT BEING ATTRACTED TO YOU. THIS MAN IS SO SUPERFICIAL BEYOND BELIEF. HOW CAN HE SAY SUCH A THING TO THE MOTHER OF HIS KIDS? HE SHOULD LEAVE YOU AND GIVE YOU A CHANCE TO HAVE A LIFE WITH A PERSON WHO IS WORTHY OF YOU HE CERTAINLY IS NOT. WHAT A PILARK!!!!

take care of your self and the rest will follow! Go out there take a course, join the gym...enrich your self and then the answer will come to you. either he will start to take notice in the wonderful changes inside and out and he may even start to look at him self twice because we all have things to change in our selves, other wise you are going to be feeling so well you will realize that its no longer a good thing for your self and you will seek out what makes you a better person for your self and not your partner. this is my experiance but mabye it will make you come up with your own creative ideas! JUST DO IT AND FOCUSE ON YOUR SELF!