Male But Look Like a Female

Hi everyone...glad to be a part of the community...

I've been depressed, bullied almost my whole like because of one thing...I was born male but shaped  like a woman.

I never had a girlfriend in my life because of this fact and now I realize that I will never be able to get one...I'm also looking into guys more than women nowdays...anyways...

I didn't know with who to talk about it...My parents will never listen to me and even if I try to explain them, they will try to joke around asking me if I am gay, that god made me like this..etc...

I don't understand why I was born male...I'm asking myself this question every night...I want to be a female and be happy for the rest of my life...I just want to leave this skin forever...:(

To give you some ideas of how my body is shaped...I will try to keep it simple...


1. My hips are extremely large (0.7,5 or even 0.8 waist ratio) butt it's extremely big...

2. I also have Ginecomastia

3. My feet and hands are extremely small compared to most males that I saw

4. My eyelashes are really big and curvy (I don't even need mascara)

5. My legs are very, very long and they are shaped like women's.


I don't now what to do:(



iwannabealexandra iwannabealexandra
18-21, M
3 Responses Aug 18, 2009

Hello I share the same sentiments my dear,... e-mail me here im from the philippines,,,

Think about this: according to most holy books throughout history, the beings mainly known as 'angels' were defined as genderless- which from one angle equals a being that is 100% male and 100% female, which cancels each other out. Such is the nature of being a whole spiritual being- it is actually an incredible blessing to be able to experience a feminine mind and male body!<br />
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Continue forward with courage and positive intention, be as understanding of others as you wish they would be to you and ALL will be well in your universe!!!<br />
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hugs <br />
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Hi there Kiddo,<br />
Consider yourself lucky to be so feminine physically when your inner self is feminine. I also look like a female and live and work as a woman. There are plenty of transgenders who are so far away from ooking like they feel inside that it is torture for them.<br />
You are who you are. You have two choices. Embrace yourself or loathe yourself and I can tell you from experience the loathing sucks. You only have one life to live and you need make sure it is YOUR life you are living. Education is #1, so keep those grades high. Family is ALWAYS important, so give your mom and dad a chance. Talking to them one at a time is better than both at the same time. <br />
My favorite quote is from Martha Washington and you should give this a great deal of thought. "I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition." <br />