I Havent Had a Girlfriend In Over Three Years

She died via suicide and i've been almost incapable of forging any kind of intimate bond with women. I want to try and learn how to actually be with a woman.

So i'm throwing myself to everyone's mercy.

rommel175 rommel175
18-21, M
6 Responses Mar 9, 2009

Ah huh. I can see how that would be a problem...

the only problem with your idea is that i fit into the friend zone WAY too perfectly.

I'm so sorry about your loss. It's only natural that you have a hard time being imitate with women. Be patient and take your time. Find a girl that you can be friends with, and get comfortable with that role. Then ease you way into a more imitate relationship.<br />
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As far as I know you seem like a wonderful guy. You'll find someone special soon enough :)

thank you both

I know it can be hard to move on... just take it slow and eventually it will be easier for you to have a relationship with another woman! I wish you the best of luck!

Don't pressure yourself into thinking you should be able to get 'back on the horse' right away..... take the time you need to feel comfortable, both in general, and also in the moment, when you're just talking to a woman. Linger within conversation until you're ready for more.<br />
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Good luck.