His mom started off small in alienating me and I did not see it until it was to late. She started with saying negative things about me to him and saying she was scared of me and my temper.(which I do not really have one). She then started taking time away from me in smal ways like planning things on my time and making me feel bad if I was to say he could not go. Then she would have him respond to birthday parties on my time and then when I came to pick him up for my weekend she would notify me that he had a party to go to and I had to pick up the present. Since he is now a teenager she started telling him that it was ok not to want to go to my house and I would understand. I did because I did not want to be a over demanding dad. Well was I wrong, when I finally figured out what she was doing it was to late and when I started getting the court involved they really were no help. I have been trying to see him for the last year and it really hurts! I call and leave messages and email him telling him I love him and let him know what has been going on in my life and end with telling him I miss him. He some times responds but it is always extremely hurtful language and things I would never expect to come from my 14 year old son.