Sense Of Loss.

My father died when I was 14 years old,I lost him to a heart attack.Before it happened I aasociated death as something which is associated with aillness whch is around for sometime and which gives you reasonable time to realise that inevitable is about to happen,as this is how I had seen my grand mother pass away but when it came to my dad just a few seconds ago he was alive and then something happened and he was no more,there was no disease,no ailment,no suffering nothing but all there was an abrupt end.

I was too young to even understand what had happened and what that meant for me but my life was defenitely in for a change.Losing your father at that age is a life changing experience for most people but I am still trying to figure that out for myself.
Macrajat Macrajat
22-25, M
2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

I am sorry that you had to lose your father at such a young age, and so suddenly. The reality of death is one of the hardest lessons we have to learn and come to terms with; it can happen to anyone at any time. I like to think that our close loved ones are looking out for us on the other side and praying for us until the day when we can be together again.

life is all about destiny, i lost my father when i was in 3 rd grade and after that my whole life changed,and i faced many problems,but that is the life up and down,bad incidents makes life bitter or learn from those incidents and carry on,so it was god wish,and we cannot go against god wish