I Cant Get Him Off My Mind

it was few months to start my degree in one of my dream universities which he (my boyfriend who was a german) and i always wished i could go, he came home and gave me a bank card for my account since i did not have one, since he was to travel back to germany and come back after three to four months. but when he got there like two days after his mom called me and told me about his accident ( a car crash). i did not believe but it was the truth, and did attend the funeral. me and my mom had to attend the burrial but since then i could never get him out of my mind. i need help on what to do..
nkoimo nkoimo
22-25, F
1 Response Sep 16, 2012

Oh, dear! I'm sorry for your loss. That's painful.

The best advice I have is to give yourself time to heal. It doesn't happen very fast, I'm afraid. Be gentle with yourself, do things you enjoy, go for walks, and try keeping yourself busy. It should help to keep yourself focused and your mind from wandering. I'm afraid it will wander, though. Don't bury your pain, either. Don't wallow too long in it, but don't hide from it either. It's real and you have to learn to deal with your loss before you can move on. Give yourself as much time as you need. One day in the future it won't feel so bad. Until then, I wish you all the best.