So Sad

I just lost my husband help x
helenboys helenboys
26-30, F
1 Response May 10, 2012

I just lost mine too on august 14 we went together 2 1/2 years and were married 4 this year june 30th my oldest sons birthday. and now he (rudy) is gone at 48 and I am a widow at 37 will be 38 on 9/11. The only thing I can tell you right off hand is not to give up on life. Hang in there everyday gets a bit better not much but enough to make it through day to day. If you got kids u really got to hang in there and even if you don't. your husband would want you to be strong and live life to the fullest cause it is just way to short. Keep reading other peoples stories everyday if you can in this forum and even if you think wow i wish i could help someone by responding to their letter but don't know exactly what to say. try to anyway cause I felt the same way but I push myself to try and help and share my grief too and believe it or not it really does help. I'm here if you ever want to talk k. Marlene