I Totally Agree..
that this is the way to go. I have to admit sex is so much more then a physical thing. Well it should be. Sex without love is pretty lame actually. I'm by no means a good guy or anything but I don't think I could ever have sex with a person I didn't love. It just makes things 10 times better. Except the losing the virginity part. That tends to be awkward. For me at least. I had an absolutely positively horrifying experience losing my virginity but one thing I will always be able to say is I loved that girl with all my heart. And she still means something to me today.