Uncle Is Dead But Not Gone

 As soon as my uncle found out he had cancer, he shot himself. His note said he didn't want to suffer the way his sister had before she died from it. He was such a fun guy and he was my Dad's favorite brother. My Dad was really angry with him for killing himself because Dad had cancer 2 years before but he got cured of it. 

I wish my Dad would forgive his brother so his spirit could be at peace and move on to his next life. But he and my Dad still argue and sometimes Uncle throws things like ashtrays around the room.

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3 Responses Mar 9, 2009

Anger is a normal reaction. When a friend of mine killed himself anger was one of the many emotions I felt. The anger will fade and the good memories will predominate. Guilt also floats around in the background. You wonder why you didn't see the signs. The guilt fades also, but not completely.

The anger from both sides will subside soon enough and your uncle will be at peace .

MAYBE HE IS TRYING TO TELL HIS BROTHER TO QUIT SMOKING?<br />
MAYBE HE IS TRYING TO VENT THAT SMOKING CAUSES CANCER.<br />
WHAT KIND OF CANCER DID HE DIE FROM?