I Am A Dominant Wife

That all sounds fine but be firm and fair and he will love you forever.

You sound like a great wife, and your hubby needs you in authority over him. If he is anything like me, when you punish him, he feels like you are helping him, so for sure put him in panties,and beyond and for sure any money he gets should be for specific things, not just on whatever he wants,its all your money.

What you are doing is Wonderful! PLEASE be sure to get him into Panties and other feminine Clothing....Feminizing men is the Best way to Control them.! Thank You for what you are doing!

My husband just came to me and asked to submit to me fully. I am very new to this and need some advice and guidance. I have apprehensions- if anyone out there can help me that would be great- we have been together 13 years and are 30/31 years old.

My dominant wife recently ordered me to throw away all of my "male" underwear for panties. Now I wear panties every day, even to work. She selects them for me and I model them while she applies my steel chastity cage each morning after my shower. I just love having a dominant woman controling me and "her" ****!

hi Beth,
I have mine on allowance too; for a few years now. It makes such a difference, though at times do let him earn a little extra with chores that are beyond the required. I now make more than he does anyway and have always been better with money.

So have you had him wear panties? Once mine was pantied regularly it was such an attitude change. He's pretty much a househusband when not at work, even wears a cute apron now. How feminine do you wnat yours?

He is a lucky guy to have soneone like you willing to lead himblike that
Wish i had same

my wife in charge of our marriage been so for over 15 years i am lock in cb3000 in panties i do all house work i obey my wife women are superior reguardless of age i must obey or get punished

it was very hard wtih wife leading the marriage when the girls were young an at home but not that they are married she as regain her full strength back an i boey

@Idamae....you are a dream come true. if more women would adopt your attitude and positions, more guys would be thrilled than they have ever been thrilled in their lives.

Wanna dominate me in cam? Love to do anything u want me to...

Wonderful, Mistress Beth, you are turning the tables to be completely in charge ! A modern husband (or call him "hubbie"!) should be happy to be under his wife´s guidance and control. I think sooner or later female led marriages will become a mainstream phenomenon in the 21st century.

My wife is wearing the pants, keeping me in skirts and dresses at home (and often when we go out). So I have become her cute, vulnerable and obedient sissy, and I am proud of it. Will be her housewife at home forever when retiring from work next year. Yes, we can be so happy to have our assertive, dominant wives !

So much good advise from obviously experienced women. My only comment has to do with his feminine attire. Definitely put him in panties. and if he belongs to a gym, insist he wear them there. where hopefully he will be exposed. Nothing to keep a husband in place than to expose his femininity. Oh, and one other thing. As he does his domestic chores, insist he wear heels, approx 3" ones. That is one more way to remind him of his dependance on you.

Having him waer more and more Feminine clothing can be Quite Effective in controling men. Especially with the cooler waether, perhaps have him wear pantyhose or tights...on a male they are so Enticing, and puts him more under your control!

Some men, myself included, have issues with with women's lingerie that goes beyond and outside of humiliation. If you introduce him to panties only as a punishment, and he is secretly thrilled by the opportunity to wear them, you may be opening the door to behaviors you did not want or intend, including disobedience, in his hope that you will punish him in that particular way.



It would be better, at first, to simply require him to wear the panties as a constant reminder that , In your house, feminine power prevails.

I did all that Madame Idamae. My wife has nothing to do at home and household.

She manages sexually. I wear a chastity belt. And at home I'm dressed women.

I think women should have that freedom.

Although I am a man subject I withdrew. Very proud of that.

All males need to learn submission. It is wonderful that you have gained the level of control that you have after five years of marriage. Most certainly, put him in panties. Not ordinary panties, buy the very effeminate ones on line, the ones with a lace butt and bows. You might as well do it right from the start. Teach him to clean the house to your satisfaction, do the laundry and, if necessary, send him to cooking school.



Absolute control of his sexual desires is essential. He should not be allowed to ********** or engage in any other sexual activity which will permit him to ********* without your permission.

Without absolute control of his sexual desires, you have no control at all. He should learn to provide you with sexual satisfaction long before he is permitted to engage in any such event. He should be required to wear a chastity device to assure compliance.



As for punishments, there is no end to a woman's creativity. Make him wear flat woman's shoes whenever you go out. Make him carry your purse. When I public, make him say "Yes, ma'am", etc. Do not allow him to speak to a waitress. You order whatever you want him to eat.

Make him curtsey to you when he enters or leaves a room. There is no end to the controls you can impose.

Ms Beth, it is very significant that You say "I ask" and he automatically consider it an order. It means You don't even have to give him a formal order but Your slightest wish is literally his command. There is a calm assertiveness in this and it is to Your credit that You fulfill Your role with politeness and courtesy without having to force His obedience.

Sounds to me like ****** control along with some tease and denial are in store for him.

****** control is actually essential. Alcohol too. He must own demand. We can make them do what they want.

i forgot to mention restrictions or grounding. my Wife will tell me no TV, Internet, alcohol or other things for a week, 2 weeks a month, however long She thinks is appropriate. In addition, there is nothing more humiliating than to have to call your friends and tell them "i got in trouble at home and my Wife will not let me go to the game this weekend." or whatever other plans i may have with my frends.

Withholding the allowance as punishment is very effective, my Wife does that with me, sometimes for mulitple weeks in a row. Talk about getting my attention. She spanks me also. She doesn't make me wear panties, but when i have been really bad, She does "feminize" with a strap-on. It sounds like you are fully on the way to ruling the roost.