About to Be Wife Led.
I'm getting married in a couple of months and it has already been decided that my soon to be wife will be in charge. In fact she is already in charge.
I closed out my bank account and put all of my money into hers. It is a joint account but she calls all of the shots when it comes to money. She has me on an allowance. When we went picking out what we wanted on our wedding gift list she asked me what my favorite color is and when I told her she scanned all of the kitchen items that was my favorite color.
She is in charge and I'm her helpmate and I'm happy with how things are working and how they will work. It turns me on when she brings up that our relationship will work like a traditional marriage with the twist being that I take the traditional wife's role and she will be the head of household. She thanks me for being gentle and nurturing and she thanks me for being supportive of her career. I look forward to taking care of the house, kids, and making sure the house is clean for her. I wouldn't have it no other way.