Do A Risk Assessment First!

Scubalove, I think that lots of women secretly would like a hand slipped into a more erogenous zone, but I think others wd find it exciting merely to fantasise about it, rather than have the reality. I belong to the latter category, having the fun of imagination without any complications. To me, massage should be simple and uncomplicated. I dare say there may be the odd exception to the rule, I am a realist! I agree once that door is opened, there are consequences - like once a line has been crossed it creates a precedent for future massages. You sound like you were a caring, considerate, insightful massage therapist, and the positive responses you received from yr clients felt really rewarding.

Javeachica hello, i know you wrote this a few months ago but i can tell that you are like me. You love massage! Do you still get them, if so how often. i love massage and get one every week. I have been going to the same girl for 12 years. This has made us very comfortable with each other and i have been getting my massage without being covered for ten years now. it has made it much better. It makes it ez for full body strokes and yes she has gotten sexsual with me. So the point is it you stay with the same one you will get to that point. Thanks for sharing. JesJames

Go amateur. Lots of willing men out there who have studied massage, taking classes, reading book, practicing on willing partners.



I have screwed up a really good professional relationship by getting involved with my massage therapist. For two years she knew every part of my body (non-sexual) better than myself. We started having lunch, talking life, and decided to sleep together. Amazing soft and sensual lover. She couldn't handle it, and said she couldn't see me any more.



I had her do one more massage professionally, but it wasn't the same. There were barriers... inside her, inside me that prevented that same connection we had had pre-coitus.



Find a good amateur who wants to flow from massage to sexual and back. You deserve it.

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As a former therapist, I loved your story. I never made a ton of money (despite the seemingly high prices, it's not a super lucrative business), but those few years were some of the most enjoyable professional years of my life - early/mid 20s. Everyday having people come out of the session, give you hugs, put their trust in you, and in general truly appreciate the tender care you give them was as rewarding as any salary.



I always wondered if some women would be like yourself. Perhaps some secretly wished for a hand to slip into more erogenous zone. I never would do such a thing due to ethics, licensing and all, but personally I feel that the sexual and sensual can overlap in a professional way. Not sure how many people can handle it in a professional manner though. Once that door is opened, it does change things.



Overseas I have received far more in some massages. In general, nudity on the table is more acceptable as well. There are places in the US for women to get erotic massages, but mostly in big cities I think.

Oh David, I have been to Melbourne, liked the wet museum. I want you to help me out! Shame yr so far away. Have added you - yr too naughty not to!

Well, you just need to nip over here to Oz and I could help you javeachica! Love to be added as a friend. Dx

I just nipped over to your site to have a look and saw your story. That was much more exciting than my (ordinary) massage! I cant help wondering how you find these masseuses (if thats the right word!) I think maybe America has everything in spades. Think we're too uptight over here to have them! Well, that is unless youre a man, even the U.K. caters for men. I would love to try an erotic massage, but they are few and far between for women, if in existence at all over here.

drop - yes, there are lots of odd rules we just accept as the 'norm' aren't there.



alanmassageman, I enjoyed getting your perspective on my perspective!. Trying to NOT feel nice is difficult!

It I is funny,isn't it, to pay a man to stroke you all over,nude, and in the same day worry if your skirt is too short!

Thanks perkybarb, - but isn't everyone? Not since we are babies is it considered okay to be stroked naked, or semi naked I should say, with a towel flitting about in the scenario. I mean spouses aside, this is an unusual situation isn't it, to have a stranger 'invade' your personal space in that way, even though you permit that. It interests me, societies' norms, and what we can flout with impunity!

You are right, massages can tame our frustrations but OMG you so sensuous.

And I enjoyed your comment dave52000, thanks for dropping by!

I always stay clear of endangerment sites...however it is a pleasure to notice her breathing change and skin take on a glow and maybe a little damp spot left behind.



I really enjoyed your story javeachica

sorry beachlover i agree with javeachica,a sensual massage does not mean sexual unless its done by a loving partner but a good massage is sensual and very relaxing,it can be a partial massage or whole body experience

beachlover1, I am here to tell you it is not always okay to let yourself go, much as you might like to!!

Thank you for commenting, I appreciate it.

Next time, you should let yourself go. Why contain yourself if you want more? But it's good that you felt relaxed and wonderful afterwards.