LoveI love giving massages. People have told me they could fall asleep, and begged me not to stop. I prefer the person being almost naked. Skin to skin contact makes for a good massage. I set the mood by shutting all the drapes and blinds, light some scented candles and turn on some soft piano music. I start with the feet. I spend time on the heel and toes. I work my way up the thighs and to the butt. People giggle when I massage their butt's but they admit it feels amazing. Then I massage the back. It's hard to explain exactly how I massage, I just go where I feel it is most important.
As for getting massaged. Holy ****. I think it is so sexual. I love being touched by someone. It is an instant sleep inducer. I think there is nothing more sensual than a good massage.