Enough.

Are you with a married man? Trust me, break it off now! It will hurt like hell but it can hurt like hell now or it can hurt like hell later, either way it is going to hurt! Might as well break it off now before you waste anymore time on this married man. He may send you flowers, candy, call you baby, tell you he loves you, makes future plans with you, plans trips with you, talks about moving in with you, goes apartment shopping for you, opens a seperate bank account, etc. All these things my MM did, by the way. A lot of people will tell you he lied to you, some of them do, but some of them get caught up in the moment, like you do. They aren't just lying to you, they are lying to themselves. They are living the fantasy, as you are, and you are eating it up. But that doesn't make it RIGHT! ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS and until he is already moved out with divorce papers in his hands, don't believe him! Don't waste your time ladies, if he hasn't left her by now, he won't leave her. And if you go tell his wife that he has been messing around, she doesn't always kick him out and that can backfire. I say TELL HER! His wife deserves to know, and then run...run far away. Make smart decisions and be strong ladies...you will get through it, I promise. It hurts now but you will get over it. Just learn from it and never ever date a married man again...EVER! Only 3% of men end up leaving their wife for the other woman. Trust me if he hasn't done it by now, he ain't doing it. You have a better chance of winning the lottery. Check out a 12 step program for love/romance/relationship addicts. Google it. If you are with a married man, you are most likely an love addict. You have to go through the storm before you see the rainbow and trust me ladies, BE STRONG, LET GO, MOVE ON...there is a rainbow!

Sweetie, I am young, married and yet love to be with older MM. I am not sure why but it makes me happy and that matters..

you sound very sweet... i bet he loves you also....

annalea, I love deeply like you - have you ever wondered why we can't meet people that feel the same as we do. Why is it so hard for people to love so deeply? I am in love with a married man and I know he has some of the same feelings but what keeps him where he is?????

You are one of those people that can love other deeply. Probably a true polyamourous person. Although the heart ache of the emotional distance occurs, it is a wonderful thing to have people in the world like you! Nothing wrong with loving others around you deeply, others will just not understand stand your feelings, but it is OK. Emotions are good, as long as we each understand "where" they are coming from and learning how to mange them.



I wish you well my friend. You will find that special one for you! I am certain they will have the qualities of all of those who impacted your life.

Eventually as long as one is open to love, it finds its mark, :-)

I do not love to be loved in return. My love in not dependent on age - and I do not love with my eyes. So no - i cannot just "move on".

Unreturned love is painful. Is your married man much older? How do you know him? Can you just not see him and move on?