I Am Having An Affair With My First True Love
OK - here's my story.
My husband dumped me over the phone after a 7 year relationship, married for 3 and a half years. He was 11 years my junior and I supported him in his aspiration to become a commercial pilot - he ended up costing me over $35,000. He left me for some chick he flies with. I am also a pilot, though just for fun.
I now have a very, very special man in my life - I guy I knew 26 years ago..my first true love, you could say, at the tender age of 15. He's a few years older than me, but the chemistry we had is still very much there. He was a Phys Ed teacher (not MY teacher) and nothing ever happened between us, apart from a very deep friendship and a mutual lust between us that could not and did not happen, in that time or space, because of our respective places in the community, not helped by us being in a pretty small country town. He truly was the most magnificent specimen of a male I had ever seen - a sentiment shared by every young woman in that town!!
However, I looked him on up facebook, on a whim, and lo and behold, there he was!!!
It's funny - it only took a few weeks for us to figure out that we had to lead our respective lives apart for 26 years, before we finally hooked up. He is married, but effectively in a loveless and sexless marriage that died years ago, with a woman who shares no interest in his life - he has 3 daughters, youngest doingfinal year of High School. I never forgot this guy, and guess what? He never forgot me either.....
He has told me that he has only ever loved two women in his life - his wife and me. He has NEVER been unfaithful before and I believe him, because of his demeanour with me when we first got physical. He was so nervous, it was kind of really sweet.
He is seriously contemplating leaving the marriage, but his biggest fear is losing the affection of his girls. I have told him that IF he leaves, it should be because of HIM not being happy, and not for me. Where will this end? I have no idea - but we are perfect together and we are enjoying each other immensley - finally, he has found the person he should have been with all along. We share so many interests, something that never happened with his wife.
I'm lucky to have had the experience of falling in love twice with this guy......