You Know What You're In For?To all ladies who have found themselves in this situation:
You may have fallen in love with a married man. But please don't be fooled. You are going to get hurt. I know you don't want to believe me but deep inside you know its true. He will say sweet things and even show love for a little while. Telling you he loves you, you're so important, etc. But his wife will eventually pick up on it and he will go home to her, leaving you sad and alone. Any person who cheats is a heart breaker who is mostly only out for their own gain. He will always be a cheater. He will throw you away and forget you because by your actions you have demonstrated that you are dispensable. It's like, um, I didn't know I was wearing a sign on my head that said "Use Me". Been there, done that. If falling in love with him has helped you in some grand way....awesome! But let it go now and don't talk to or see him anymore. And don't go back and forth. End it because if you don't....he eventually will. And he won't even care. You think he always will, but you are not a priority in his life. He is. Best of luck to you, and if you decide to stay, just remember...you'll be the one to pay in the end. Move on and find someone who is truly worthy of you, and only YOU.