I recently re encountered with my middle school boyfriend and who I think was and will always be the love of my life. He feels the same and I started seeing him a month ago, the problem is that he's being married for 17 years. I've been divorced for 2 years now. We have not been intimate, but have kissed and stuff. I told him that I did not have an affair with him, that I wanted to be with him the right way.

He told me that he's not in love nor happy in his marriage and has always thought of me as we'll.

He asked me for 30 days to think things through. And after that time he will have a decision for me. Mainly because of his 14 and 5 year old daughters.

I told him that he had to make a decision based on what he wanted for himself and not thinking of what he feels for me or for his wife.

I know I did the right thing by not sleeping with him.

But I haven't had contact with him for a week now and I feel blue

Dearpenny72 Dearpenny72
41-45, F
1 Response Aug 22, 2014

Thank you so much for being mature about this.