My Teacher

I am only a teen, but I have felt very strongly towards my teacher for a very long time now. When I first met him, he was totally single, and I didn't feel anything toward him. A few years passed, and I'm growing very, very fond of him, and his girlfriend is my second favorite teacher (after him of course). It was just last year that I found out my other teacher was his fiancee.

They got married a while ago, and I made them a humongous wedding gift that they hung up at the gifts table at their reception. I should feel very flattered but really I just want to forget about it completely. My heart still leaps when I'm talking to him, I still feel very upset when they so much as interact, and I am still hopelessly head over heels for my 14-years-older teacher.

CaptainKlutz CaptainKlutz
13-15, F
4 Responses Dec 22, 2009

I know exactly how you feel, but I think it will be much easier for you once you move up to the next grade. I never had a crush on any of my teachers, but I have a crush on a co-worker who is married. To top it off, we have been intimate before. Now, he is working to get on the straight and narrow with his wife, and I've been basically thrown away. It was never meant to be, but now that I have fallen for him it's hard to get out of this pit of despair. At this point, the only solution I see to it is changing jobs, but that's not so easy in this climate. I wish you be the best of luck. I'm confident that you will move on, find a boy your age, and forget about this man that you could never in a million years feel like you could forget. Cheers!

Seeing them together is painful no doubt...can you discover what it is about his qualities that you find so attractive? Are you willing to date anyone to help redirect your feelings?<br />
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Are you still in his class? Hang in there! It sucks...I know!

well I can honestly relate to what you feel when you see them both togethe! it hurts and it sucks big time... especially when you dont know where you stand after him telling you that he feels something for you!! it sucks big time!

well I can honestly relate to what you feel when you see them both togethe! it hurts and it sucks big time... especially when you dont know where you stand after him telling you that he feels something for you!! it sucks big time!