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I try to be open to just about anything my partner shows an interest in.  I'll at least explore it.  My husband has always liked for me to play with his *** during sex and it turns me on to make him feel so good.  Of course, he wanted to return the favor.  I've had anal sex with other partners, but it wasn't always a great experience.  My husband had only tried anal sex once before and it wasn't a positive experience.  So I decided to do a little research.  I found a great site ( that helped us have a fantastic experience.  The information very practical and is from both a man's and a woman's perspective.  There is also a lot of information on the site that debunks the whole idea of anal sex as a gay or taboo practice.

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3 Responses Jul 9, 2008

Great site, and lots of helpful tips!

You would not believe how many chicks I've met who thought it was "a gay thing" when I brought it up (not that there's anything wrong with that). The next one that says something like that, I'm going to ask her if she's a dude. Anyway, thanks for the info. I'll check that out for sure. It would definitely be good to have some pointers I could give a woman so she's not soured on the whole thing by doing it wrong. I actually once had a girlfriend try to "whoops" me, only to get up and run to the bathroom going "ow, ow, ow" the whole way. We had better luck (another night, of course) after I explained to her that it takes a bit more finesse than that.

I'm a fan of my husband playing with my *** during sex but I can never take his penis back there. It seems more painful than his finger being down there. Do you have any advice that can help me get past this?