I'm A Male And I Love Ballet Flats
As the title suggest Im a male in his 20s and I love Ballet flats, Love wearing them since I was very young, since I can remember. I never really understood why and as I got older I thought it was because I grew up in a house full of women including my aunt and her daughter since my dad always worked out of town I hardly ever saw him. I use to think I was alone on this but I didnt care, women shoes, mainly ballet flats, made me feel good and I came to accept that. I'm not really much of a cross-dresser, I have experimented, but is mainly the shoes but soon as time when on I grew to accept my little addiction or love for this shoes I found out I was not alone on this, since I research things online and such, and recently I took a Psychology class in college and I had a wonderful Instructor and I told her about my fascination on woman's shoes, I told her that it wasn't much of a sexual rush, it was just a thing I was comfortable with, I did find woman who wear flats very arousing but not much on my self. I told her that I was not really looking for a cure or anything since I already had learn to accept it as a part of my life, I was just curious. I shared my theory with her and she did the same but the best part is when she reassure me that I wasn't alone and sometimes talking to someone about something this personal is very helpful, and she was right I felt great since it has been my greatest secret, I had never told anyone, ever. I new this is not a problem since it hasn't really interfered in my life in any way, I recently had the courage to walk in public with my ballet flats and I do dress well nobody has ever notice. I really was glad I had that talk with her I even wore my ankle strap mary-janes to her class the next day I've had never heard anyone compliment me like she did I hugged her and told thanked her for everything she has done for me. I think people should do what ever is that makes them happy if it's not hurting anyone including themselves, life is to short and we should all enjoy it how we want and if I love to wear ballet flats then I will wear ballet flats for that is who I am and no one will ever change that.