A Requirement

I suppose the assumption about swingers and hotwives who  enjoy bareback sex is that we enjoy changing partners with reckless abandon. When I meet a man who's a potential sex partner, I make it clear that he be tested for STDs by the same people who test my husband and me regularly. While this sometimes eliminates some would be partners the few men I've been with since becoming a hotwife don't mind going to the trouble. I recently reconnected with a former lover and last night he spent the night with us. He was tested and everything was fine and we enjoyed a fantastic *********. The guys loved  giving me a double facial and the freedom of raw intercourse and oral.
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2 Responses Jan 10, 2013

Personally that seems reasonable...you want fun without risking your entire future! When I was in the military these tests were mandatory every couple years so I knew that I was clean. And there was no disrespect or lecturing that went with this.

Better safe than sorry. Same concern in meeting couples act reckless and not demanding testing or protection. from a lover point of view it is the same risk.