Never Done This.

I feel you. I love bareback but I make him wrap up if I am not 100% sure or I don't know him well enough and don't be afraid to go get a test. **** go together!

Just listen to the girl -- she's the one taking most of the risk.

MarkFree - that comment was awesome...I kept waiting for the part where you still were addicted to the habit but she had lost interest.



In all seriousness to the topic though.... wrap that rascal EVERY TIME until you are in a committed relationship. There is no cure for Herpes, AIDS kills .... better safe than sorry

Be extremely careful! It can be very addictive. The biggest concern you should have is not STD's or unplanned pregnancies, those can be treated or cured – worse case they kill you in a couple of years. No the biggest fear you should have is you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of enslavement.



My story stared similar to yours. A fairly attractive young lady said she was open to doing it with me. Curiosity, a little peer pressure and some internal drive I still can't explain lead me to accept her offer. It was fabulous, exhilarating and flat out enjoyable, so we did it again and again.



It quickly became a habit. We did it and we went to school and not much else. Life was good, until the unthinkable happened – the school graduated us. Like any addict, I was terrified that this change in life style would dry up my source and so I did what I had to, in order to make sure I could always get some. I asked her to marry me. To my surprise, she was as addicted as I was and quickly said yes.



She wore a strange white dress. I had never seen her in it before or since. I wore a rented tux. We stood before god, three hundred of our closest friends and family and boldly proclaimed we were going to do it from this day forward. Cake was eaten, dances danced, a garter belt thrown and a bouquet tossed. We were married.



In order to support our habit, we had to rent an apartment and feed ourselves, so we had to take jobs. Jobs required cars, so we need better jobs and so it continued. For some reason, partaking in our habit was no longer enough and we decide to experiment with the procreative aspect of it. Of course my co-dependent partner no longer felt safe in our apartment and certainly didn't want to run the experiment until we lived in the suburbs, so we rented a house and worked harder.



Within a year, her breast began to change and her belly swelled. By this time ample money was coming in to support our habit, so we made the big plunge and bought a house, on a tree lined cul du sac and experimented once again.



By the time the second experiment emerged from her belly we knew we were done experimenting with the procreative aspect of our addiction. She took the extreme step of having her body mutilated so she could continue to feed her addiction and yet not have any more experiments. The next decade and a half was a confusing time of singing dinosaurs which morphed into little league games and scout outings.



To this day I still need to cuddle with her just to get a good night's sleep. So my man, think long and hard about what you are going to do – Might I suggest a monastery?

funngirl is absolutly correct!

be ABSOLUTLY posative she is std free before you make such a commitment.

Thank you fungirl. You're a sweetheart.

More mature woman advice...Do you know that she is STD free? Do you love her enough to face HIV or herpes for the rest of your life? Does she love you enough that she would still do it with a condom? I adore you and love reading your posts here and I would hate for anything negative to happen to you. I urge you to think long and hard before you do it. Some other things that I would be thinking about is how committed is this relationship? How many other partners has she had? Could I possibly give her any STD as well? I know I usually joke around with you but this is serious stuff. She is playing Russian Roulette with your life and hers. Make sure you have all the answers before you put yourself there. ((hugs))