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My Wife Spanks Me

My Wife has spanked me for years. She's very strict & dominant, & expects nothing less than total obedience & respect from me.

 

I obey Her without question. She is 100% in control of me & our marriage.

I learned if I wanted to be with Her, that She was going to be in charge, I was going to obey Her without question & be disciplined & punished when She saw fit, & I had one of two choices if I stayed with Her, learn to love it or learn to accept it, either would do, & it didn't matter to Her which I chose, for I was going to obey Her if I was going to be with Her. Once She took over & I accepted it, there was no more discussion or going back.

She took control & my spankings/paddlings started on our wedding night. She wanted to make it quite clear from the beginning who was in charge, & it wasn't to be me. On our wedding night She took me over Her lap & paddled me with Her hairbrush before we actually consummated our marriage by making love. In fact to my Wife, the actual consummation of our marriage was Her paddling me & taking charge, not in making love. That was no light little session either. By the time She was finished paddling me, (30 minutes later, She timed that one), my bottom was deep red to deep purple, heavily bruised, I was begging Her to stop through my tears & sobbing, & I was hoarse from crying. She put me in the corner & told me to get used to it, for She was in charge & that's how it was going to be. She had Her priorities in order from the beginning. The entire week we were on our honeymoon, & the rest of the first month of our marriage, each day began & ended with me over Her lap getting spanked & spending time crying in the corner, not including when She needed to punish me for something, the morning & evening sessions were just to remind me who was in charge. Each session, for punishment or as a reminder ended with me in tears & begging my Wife to stop, & it's been that way every time for nearly 26 years now. My Wife shows no mercy & cuts no corners when spanking/paddling me, for any reason.

When we were first married & I was learning Her rules, I was spanked by Her at least once a day, every day for falling short of Her rules & expectations, & usually 2-3 times a day on average just for that, not including the regular maintenance sessions each day. It took about six months for me to get to where it was an average of once a day merely for punishment, & about ten months before it was less than once a day for that. My Wife was & is extremely strict & does not let anything slide, no matter how minor it may seem to others. There were also a minimum of 3 days a week, (usually 4-5), after the first month that each day began & ended with my being over Her lap & every night I was over Her lap, for the first year of our marriage as She molded me into the "obedient little boy" that She wanted as a husband. My Wife let me know She wasn't going to tolerate what She considered "typical male behavior" & She was determined to & would break me of those faults. She made it very clear that She preferred & would have a "Good, docile, submissive & obedient little boy for a husband rather than an overly macho man that would try to assert his male 'authority'.", as She put it Herself. She so much as told me that the biggest reason that She married me, (besides loving me), is that She could tell I would be easy to train, dominate & control, & that's exactly what She was looking for in a man. She said that if I hadn't been so easily trainable & controllable, we would never have gotten married.

 I get a weekly discipline session every Sunday to remind me of who is in charge in our marriage, ensure that I remain Her "obedient & good little boy", & because She knows being a man, that I've done something wrong that She didn't know about. I also get unannounced random spankings during the week, (at the very least 2-3 a week extra, usually 4-5), for the same reason that I had to have done something wrong. Even after 25 years of marriage, I still fall short at least once a month, (usually more often, an average of 4-5 times a month), & receive the full fledged punishment spankings as well. There is no begging, no pleading, & no negotiating when She feels I need to be spanked or paddled. It will happen. She uses Her hand, a hairbrush, a paddle or a belt, depending on what I have done. She will also use mouth soaping if She feels it's needed as well as corner time, (corner time is a given, no matter why I am spanked).

Weekly discipline session are always a minimum of 50 swats, unless I have needed to be punished the week prior, & then it's an additional 10 swats for each time She's had to punish me. Random spankings are a minimum of 25 swats, often more, & ones for punishment start at 100 swats & can go higher, (depending on the nature of the offense), to a maximum of 300 swats.

 My wonderful Wife is a firm believer that men are nothing more than "overgrown little boys" that need the strict, firm & loving hand of a Woman, be it their Mother, their Wife, or another woman that the man has consented to being disciplined by to discipline, correct, punish, & guide them into what they should be.

sissygirlmarie sissygirlmarie 51-55, T 7 Responses Feb 17, 2010

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My wife/mistress hangs me naked from a ceiling hook when I am to be whipped. Which is often. Her theory is that showing mercy is a sign of weakness which I may take advantage of. If I disobey or irritate her I am questioned and sentenced to whatever punishment she decides. Once sentence has been passed it is carried out in full and mercy is never shown. In her opinion male disobedience is a serious offence which will not be tolerated under any circumstances. When asked for my reasons for an offence if she suspects my answers to be lies or stupid my punishment is increased.

Its about time for all wives to take this approach. all men need a strict woman to teach them to behave, and have them do the housework!

My wife was the same way. She was i control and if i didn't like it, there was the door. We went out for several months before telling me i was to obey her or else. On our wedding night, i gave her a present, a pearl necklace. She smiled and pulled out a box for me. I opened it. It was a cat-o-nine-tails. After that night, i knew she was in charge but that was ok.

My wife says the same thing. Women have right and authority to discipline men

just like kids.

I get spanked two three times a week and

then once a week maintenance spanking

to make sure I know my place.

This started gradually in our marriage and

became permanent. I used to get excited

during session. No I enjoy it as a habit.

I don't think I have other choice.

I think you are a lucky guy to have a no-none sence wife my wife spanks me once in a while but not as much as shev should.

ok i do not know this guy but I will say that I have taken 250 swats so 300 is not out of the realm of reality. My wife is not quite so strict and I wish she was more strict, on the other hand i am not sure that is possible to love a woman enough to go through what this guy went through.

To answer the questions & straighten out a few things, first of all it's not fake & yes, up to 300 swats. One develops a tolerance over time, & it's the type of swat as well that can affect how many one can take. Hard & intense swats won't add up to 300, but steady ones can. You don't even notice the effects of the constant steady ones until the next day, when you find sitting is all but impossible.



You people who doubt this likely have never actually been spanked & live vicariously through the fantasy of it.

Oh Marie; Like you I received a lengthy spanking on our wedding night and am still being turned over her knee as needed. I am spanked till I am bawling like a spoiled little brat then put in the corner pantries still down. My wife spanks me when ever and where ever. It can be so embarrassing being drug over her knee in front of others having my pants pulled down getting my bare bottom publicly spanked. Robin