I Loved Bondage For A Long Time

Hello my name is David Rivera, I am 18, I am a dom and I am new here, to this group I mean, and I have loved bondage for a long time, since I was 4 or 5 I think. I love seeing women bound and gagged, and I always wanted to tie up a woman before but never had the chance. I was always nervous and dead on afraid of asking a girl "May I please tie you up?", where I am from it is seen as "not right" if you will. But I love bondage too much to just bury it and move on, so I decided to wait...so if anyone is wondering I...I...never had a girlfriend. I wanted to wait it out in the hope I would meet a lovely woman who loves bondage and loves to be bound and gagged and...well...wants to be my slave and damsel. Unfortunately I feel that has back fired on me and well it feels a bit lonely. But I am hoping that by being in this group and sharing my story I'll be able to meet many other fellow bondage people and maybe be friends too. Thank you and hope to meet you all.
rivera229 rivera229
18-21, M
3 Responses Sep 25, 2012

Would you ever consider bondage with another man?

What about tie up a man and making him your slave?

Try to find a local munch and get involved. e.g. www.informedconsent.co.uk

I went to the site but I am from the United States though, still thank you for the suggestion I appreciate it. :)

It was just intended as an example more than anything - if you google 'munch BDSM' you'll probably get something more local where you can meet like minded people. Good luck.

Thank you again, I am going to look into that I never really heard of a munch before though.

Now's the time to take the plunge and find out if you really like it or not. I was lucky, I guess, I found a girlfriend at university who was as curious as I was. We were friends and as a joke I pulled her wrists behind and loosely wrapped them in the ends of a tie on her skirt. The next week she visited my room with a velvet cord she'd bought especially. That led to an interesting summer. I wish we'd had the fantastic resources of the internet when I was your age.

Wow I hope I get that lucky one day, sometimes I wonder if I ever will tie up a woman, I just have doubts I guess. I mean I know I love bondage but when it comes to tying up someone I feel it won't happen.

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