Anonymous Advice Column

Write me with your secret problem.

SharkyGirl SharkyGirl
22-25
3 Responses Mar 9, 2010

I met this guy. He is amazing, smart, funny, respectful, and attractive. The more time I spend with him the more I want to be with him, there are just a few problems. I'm about to turn 18 and he just turned 21. That's a small problem but it can be overcome... The bigger problem is that he has a baby. His ex girlfriend put a hole in his condom because she thought he was going to leave her. She is raising the little girl and he visits on weekends sometimes... But a baby is a big deal! I really have feelings for this guy, but what do I do??

My secret problem is how to deal with my boyfriend of 7 months who blatantly said he doesn't love me after I told him after 7 months and stayed with him through his divorce. Oh, did I mention I'm also currently going through his year long deployment too?

I don't have secret problems. That's what therapists are for.