Ask..you Just Never Know What The Answer Will Be.My breasts have been something of a distraction for a very long time. When I was pregnant 10 years ago and researching everything baby I came across the notion of ANR. The concept raised some curiosity but life got hectic when baby came along. My husband was the stay at home person, he has his own business and my career began to elevate me to new and more stressful responsibilities. I pumped and breastfed my daughter for the first 6 months before I just couldn’t keep up the pace. ANR had gone to the back of my mind and unfortunately the business of day to day took us over.
Early 2010, somehow I stumbled back on the idea. Breast play has always been part of our relationship and I have always been able to ****** with just suckling. I tried to ease my husband into it now and then by asking for more suckling and questioning gently what he thought of drinking my milk but never had the nerve to just come out and have the discussion. Periodically I would dig out the breast pump and herbs and try to “secretly” re-lactate but anyone that has tried this will know that it takes a lot of time and effort and “secretly” is really not practical.
I’m not sure where the nerve came from but just a few days ago we were lying in bed, me watching political commentary and he reading a book on his tablet, it had been long while since we were intimate, I simply said that my **** missed him.
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Since that moment there hasn’t been more than 2 hours passed that either his mouth, my dual breast pump or one of us weren’t massaging them. The breast pump is next to the bed and after one night of setting and re-setting the alarm to pump we hooked it to a timer. Unfortunately it’s only capable of being on/off for 1 hour increments. I turned the suction all the way down and use the lowest setting and go to sleep with him watching my breasts work to make him milk. With the help of a generous amount of lanoline the cups stay suctioned without assistance and every other hour each night my body is being demanded to make milk..for my husband.
I’m already getting some clear drops and blue veins are popping up ..I’m so excited and thrilled that this time..together..we are working together to have a nursing relationship.