It's Not The Only Thing But..

I had my first encounter with a "Butch Girl" in my late teens. I couldn't figure out what it was about her, but I felt this instant pull to her. She was so gorgeous. She got a little annoyed at me for staring and I assume that's because she thought I was doing one of those obnoxious." Is that person a boy or a girl" thing. I just wanted to talk to her. I felt so bad that my desire was based on an entirely physical pull. I'm not that person. Sure, I need to be attracted to someone but it's really not to ground floor for my interest.

I have had an on and off again thing with a girl who identifies as "soft butch" and while it's not the only thing I Need to be attracted enough to want to start a relationship off. There really is something about Butch girls that go right to the very core of me and give me butterflies.

I'm not sure if it's just because I want to be one, or be with one but I'm a huge fan either way :D
Thatgirlsid Thatgirlsid
26-30, F
2 Responses May 16, 2012

There is nothing wrong with feeling attracted off the bat. As sexual creatures this is normal. While this physical pull might lead you to start speaking to this particular person eventually conversation, getting to know them and emotional pull will keep you there.

This is so interesting to me. Until recently, I have felt intimidated by the "butch" girls I have known.... I stayed away because I felt like there was nothing I could relate to. Now, I don't think that's my taste at all, but I am definitely interested & intrigued....