My Ideal Butch Woman
For me, It's all about balance. I am a feminine woman who enjoys being a woman and all the trappings; heels, makeup,lacy confections,etc. I am also a woman who is confident in my abilities and independent. I have my own interests and opinions. I can do a few "nontraditional" things like working with power tools and changing a flat tire. That doesn't make me any less femme..Just capable.
That being said, I only date butch women. Nothing is sexier to me than a woman who is physically stronger than I! (All my strength is in my legs and my upper body is pretty weak..lol) I like knowing that she can protect me physically and that can carry over into more intimate parts of our relationship..lol
I like a butch woman to be confident with a swagger but not arrogant or cocky. I am a mentally and emotionally strong woman and I must have that in a mate. She has to be intelligent as well and have a very good sense of humor! Laughter can see you through almost any tough time in your life.
The sheer contrast of her body in more masculine attire than me is very sexy. Add boxers or briefs and you have scored bonus points...Please...NO Victoria's Secret under there...That's just plain WRONG!!!
I don't expect her to be 100% dominant in bed, but it is nice for her to take control on occasion. Outside of the bedroom, we are equal and she always treats me as a lady.
I have to say this as well...She HAS to have manners. Most of my female buddies are butch woman and they treat me like one of "the guys" when I am around our crew. There is all this locker room trash talk and burping..Suffice it to say, I don't want the woman I am seeing to act like that! Be a gentle butch and hold the door if you want to impress a femme girl. You never know where it may lead!