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The Lord of His Realm

A personal story in the experience: I Love Cats
L ong before I had my present cats , there had been one special cat in my life.  Even though I love the cats I have now, compared to Lord Garfield, they aren't the same.
He was part Siamese, with beautiful tabby markings and green-blue eyes. He was a chatty cat.  And a fierce one too.  He had a large territory and fought often to defend it.  I have lost count the number of times I would have to take him to the vet to have an abscess drained.  The vet told me he must be a boxer. When I asked him what he meant, he said it was because they were always head wounds.  He asked if I had had him desexed, I said he had been at 5 months old, the minimum age to do it.  He smiled and said some cats were just born fighters.  We kept him in at night and let him roam through out the day. He chose me to be 'his' human and love me to the exclusion of everyone else in the house.  He would wait on the front porch for me to come home from school, a habit he kept up all through until I finished uni.  He had my schedule down pat.  No matter how often it changed, especially at uni, it would only take him a week to work it out.  And when he would see me coming up the street he would rush out to greet me meowing away, almost as if he was telling me about his day.  Every morning after he ate, he would come into my room and climb under the covers with me.  He would stay for a while a warm, loving, purring mass of cat, before he went out to do his morning patrol.  And he would stay with me at night stationing himself where ever I was, from the living room until I went to bed and then he would snuggle down under the covers with me when I went to bed.  He loved lying with his head on my arm, one ear pressed against my chest. I think he liked to hear my heartbeat. During summer he would station himself, usually on my pillow, near my head.  He was loyal, and  loving and fiercely protective of me he growled and hissed if he thought I was being harmed.  He died in 2003, he had a massive stroke, I found him in the backyard, he looked as if he had died in mid step.  I held his cold body and some part of me kept thinking if I could make him warm, he'd be ok.  I dug his grave under the grapevine that he loved to sleep under, I dug until my hands bled.  I laid him in his grave, then I took his collar for that would be for me to take with me, and then I took off my signet ring and l placed it upon his leg for that was his to take.  I covered him with vine leaves and filled in his grave. 
Dante and Regis were already part of the household by that stage, and for a while time I resented their presence.  They were not like my Lord Garfield, they were intruders.  I could not even look at them, let alone pet them.  Lord Garfield had been with me for 17 years, since I was 11.  Even now I feel the tears come when I think of him. 
I did eventually get over my resentful thoughts about Dante and Regis and I love them both.  But, Lord Garfield, there will never be another cat like him, never. I still miss him, he was the only thing in my life that had loved me unconditionally.
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Posted Oct 2nd, 2007 at 8:44AM
I understan how you feel. My Lord Michael was that improtant to me. He always knew when I was sad. He would come and put his paws on my chest, look at me and gently lick my tears away. I miss him so much.
     
Posted Jul 24th, 2008 at 6:06PM
Your boy was so lucky to have you. Can you imagine what it would be like, from the moment you're born to the moment you go on ahead, to be loved and cared for, have all your needs attended to by someone who always put you first? Your Lord Garfield was lucky. You were a wonderful
"mom" to him, and his life was blessed.
     
Posted Sep 3rd, 2008 at 10:27PM
Just reading your story again brought tears to my eyes. I have my Lady Angelique and my dog Missy but I miss Lord Michael so much. Not all creatures have that type of bond with their humans and more is the pity but then it wouldn't be as special then would it?
     
Posted Oct 9th, 2008 at 3:21AM
Absolutely beautiful... *sigh* Reminds me of my own kitty companion Rob. I'd tell you about him but thinking on him too long still makes me teary.
     
Posted Nov 4th, 2008 at 5:04AM
I completely know how you feel. I used to have an all black tomcat that I felt the same way about. His name was Bagheera. He was the best cat I ever had. A fighter like your Lord Garfield. He also had a knack with schedules and was constantly getting absesses as well. You were lucky to have Lord Garfield so long. I was not that lucky. Bagheera sadly left us after 9 years of wonderful times together, in 2001. I miss him terribly. I had other cats at the time as well and I too resented their presence a little after my Baggy was gone. I will never forget him. I now have a new Bagheera, named in honor of the first, that looks almost Identical to the first and even acts similar. I know he is not my first Baggy, No cat will ever replace him. But my new Baggy does a great job coming close.
     
Posted Jan 6th, 2009 at 4:44PM
My baby was amazing..she passed away a few months ago...She had Kitty Aids and she bled almost to death on our bathroom floor--it was horrible. But, a new kitty came into our lives. It is horrible to lose a loved one, but when a new one comes into your life they bring a special feeling that you never knew you could have! I Love Cats!!!!
     
Feeling chill
Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 4:45AM
My eyes and nose are leaking now! My girl likes to come in the kitty cave sometimes..its so nice...he sounds like a wonderful friend..i hope you meet him on the other side :::wipes tears:::
     
Posted Aug 2nd, 2009 at 5:43PM
Sounds like a great cat.. I wish they could all stick around for a lot longer.
     
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Posted Aug 15th, 2009 at 12:33PM
I have a cat named havoc....He is part siamese--blue eyes and some tabby markings....Today is the first time he ever jumped on my bed--He's a year old this month. I have really become attached to him.... thank you for your story, it brought tears to my eyes.
     
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Posted Oct 6th, 2009 at 6:39PM, last updated Oct 6th, 2009 at 11:49PM
I know how you feel :c there was a stray Kitty named tiger near my temp apartment that had attacthed itself to mehe was always waiting for Me at our doorstep at exactly the time I got home from school :) I wouldve kept him in a heartbeat If my mom had let me. I will never forget the little guy. And I like to think he hasn't forgotten me either, I would spend hours just petting him and he purr for a while then randomly run off and come back 5 sec later with a grasshopper/mouse/creepy crawler to give me :) no cat will ever be like him he loved everyone but their was this secret understanding between us, that I was his favorite :) an he was my favorite.
     
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