Help.......I've been talking to a wonderful man on line for 2 months. We talked on the phone several times a day. Then he got a phone that will text.....and now all he will do is send very short text messages. I haven't had a phone call for a week. And mostly his texts only say " I love you babe". I have not answered his last text from early today. Does he not want to talk anymore but afraid to tell me?'m confused and sad.
bbw1955 bbw1955
61-65, F
3 Responses Aug 17, 2014

Dizzy is ryt, he's had his chase n he's snared u,,he's gone after bigger game...sad but this is how most men r.. Don't respond at all, go on with your life..put him dwn as experience..

May be he just wanted to pass time

Coming from a males point of view he was in it for the chase. Now that he knows he has you he has became "bored" im sorry to put it bluntly but i believe this is the issue you are facing

Well thanks. But what do you think I should do? Just leave him alone, don't answer his texts or his calls and just see what happens?

I would ask him whats going on and tell him how you feel.

Ok, I did that, "please tell me what's wrong and that I feel like maybe you are trying to tell me that you don't want to talk anymore" I told him if that's what he wants to just tell me and I will go away..........his short text answer was "stop it" "I love you babe".........this is crazy, I hate this online stuff.......I'm going to hang in there maybe he has a problem and doesn't want to talk about it with me. I'm going to back away from sending texts (only answer the ones he sends) and wait and see what happens. Thanks for your advice......still sad and