What Every Woman Should Know About CrossdressersThis is more of an opinion, rather than a story...but I hope many women and other trannies will read.
Women fall into one of 3 general categories with respect to crossdressing males:
1) Disgusted by the thought of a crossdressed male.
2) Indifferent to the thought of a crossdressed male.
3) Intrigued by the thought of a crossdressed male.
I suspect the majority of women fall into Category 1. This is understandable for sure. Afterall, humans are creatures of their environment. And society's general opinion is that men should dress like men, and not dress like women. This is a sort of social conditioning that begins at an early age and is rather well cemented by the time puberty arrives, and certainly by the time we reach adulthood.
A smaller percentage of women fall into Category 2. Those who are indifferent are probably a little more open minded than those in Category 1. They realize that there are a number of crossdressing males in society, and accept the fact that it's a relatively harmless hobby. These women would tend toward accepting a crossdressing male as a friend. However, they may or may accept a crossdressing male in a more initmate relationship. I don't believe a woman in this category would begin to date someone they know to be a crossdresser...and that's not how most relationships between a woman and crossdressing male begin anyway. Usually, the dating begins with the male not exposing his crossdressing desires initially. As the dating matures into a loving relationship, the crossdressing male may then reveal his transvestic desires. BTW: some crossdressing males choose not to reveal this aspect of their personalities even after the relationship evolves into a loving one...but that's a whole 'nother can 'o worms. Once revealed, the woman has decisions to make. Stay with the guy or dump him. If she chooses to stay, then to what extent will she accept his crossdressing. Acceptance at this stage can take on wide range variations. Anything from, "you can dress occasionally, but I don't want to see it"...all the way to, "put on those stockings and heels baby, come and get me."
Then there is Category 3. Every straight crossdresser on the planet dreams of meeting this woman, yet she is very rare. She is turned on by the thought of her man transforming himself into a lovely woman. For the rare, wonderful woman that falls into Category 3, the world is your oyster. There are probably hundreds of crossdressing males for every female that is attracted to him. And I doubt that just any crossdressing male will do. Women attracted to a tranny are likely to want that tranny to look relatively convincing. She's probably less likely to want a big, burly, muscular, hairy, manly man - and more likely to want her man leaner, and hairless. Again, these are tendencies...nothing is totally set in stone. One thing is clear to me though...the women that fall into Category 3 can have their pick of the tranny litter, so to speak.
Advantages for the Open Minded Woman:
Ladies...if you think having sex with a crossdresser could be fun, then please read just a bit further.
The crossdressed male will do almost anything to fulfill your sexual desires and fantasies. For example, I enjoy giving oral to a woman. However, when I am crossdressed, I totally get so much more into it. I don't just want you to have an ******, I want you to have multiples on top of multiples until you are exhausted. I won't be happy until my face is completely covered and soaked from your pleasure. If you like toys...just tell me how you'd like me to please you with them. Maybe you'd enjoy a nice deep massage...I give wonderful massages, but they are so much better when I'm in stockings and stiletto heels.
In other words...ladies...whatever pleasures you seek, the crossdressed male is willing to give you that in spades. I'm going to go out on a limb here, but I will bet that any tranny will do a much better job pleasuring you while he is crossdressed, than when in male mode only. Why is that? It's because the crossdresser is also getting exactly what he wants. The opportunity to please his woman, while being dressed like a woman. It's far less important for us to ****** (though we know we will eventually). It's far more important for us to ensure you have many, many *******. And it's a turn on for us to help you achieve this state of arousal while we are all dressed up.
There have been a few women who have given testimonials to this effect. They love their hubbies, boyfriends, etc. But WOW...the sex is amazing when they are dressed up. Think about it!!