Fat And Alone

I love this page, it makes me feel so good about myself. But in my daily life, people just do not feel this way. I'm nearly 20 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. I joined a dating site and only one man has been interested. We went out on a date and we text each other all the time, but I just don't seem to have feelings for him. I mean, I know I'm fat and a lot of people would tell me to take what I can get, but can't I get what I want?

I just want a guy (or a girl for that matter) who will love me no matter what size I am and is sweet and funny and nerdy and clicks with me. Is that too much for a fat nerd-girl to ask for?

I really don't think so, but apparently it is. I've only ever been asked out twice before joining the dating site, and both of those times were to mock me. I just want some love.
violetxviolence violetxviolence
18-21, F
7 Responses Aug 17, 2011

What sites are you using?

I know you pain .
It's like I'm reading my own story

HEy sweetie you must not let people get to you about being fat. I for one get major turned on by a lovely beautiful full figured plump women. If only you stayed near me I would treat you with respect, love and care, I would not be ashamed of public affection with you. <br />
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Mwah sweetie pie

Hey im new to this but if u want you can talk with me : )

Try not to let people get you down. Be who you are. You're still young..don't settle for some jerk who doesn't know how to treat you. I know how hard it is being bigger when you're young...I have been big for most of my life. As I have gotten older, I still care, but I accept myself more. I don't know about the whole relationship thing anymore (a bit disillusioned after my divorce), but know that there are plenty of guys out there who love bigger women...some admit it and some don't. Don't give up hope and don't let anyone treat you like crap and you just take it. Walk away.

i would be interested in chatting??

Hi there,<br />
I am not personally interested in dating as I've been in a great relationship for over 2 and a half years now but I do want to share something with you.<br />
I am not a skinny size 8 girl, and I never expect myself to be, but on the other hand, I am not a size 22 either. I am a size 12-14 but am still not pleased as I want to loose a bit of my extra weight but my partner loves me exactly as I am. What I'm trying to say is that there is someone for everyone. My partner is a beautiful Figian/PNG guy with a gorgeous physique, afro and smile, and I always question why he would want to be with someone with extra chubbiness when he really could get anyone. So many girls look at me when we are walking together and I just smile. Everyday he tells me how beautiful I am and that if I ever change, that he wants me to do it for me and not ever for him because he loves me the way I am. I believe there is most definately someone out there for you and I'm finally realising that you don't have to be that stick thin figure because not everyone likes that, and to be honest, a little junk in the trunk is better than sticks and bones walking away from you.<br />
I'm sure you will find someone :)

im sorry, but your not even near fat, do dont try to make it see like u are, ur average, n us bigger girls have a hard time with love