It's All About Mindset
I think it is a matter of self-esteem and confidence. And of being happy, positive and open-minded. When you get to come to peace with yourself, when you stop competing with others, when you are happy with who you are and focus only on good things in your life - then all this come out without you intending it, and you start attracting people. And if you enjoy making others feel sexy, then you become sexy yourself. It is all about mindset and communication. It has nothing to do with make-up, miniskirts, big muscles or whatever the like - this is sort of short-lived sexiness. Just love yourself, love the others, keep improving, radiate a bit of mistery - and you'll be sexy ... it feels sooo good !