Any Warnings/advices Concerning ******* ?

So, I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and a half now, he's the first and only man I've ever had sex with. I was sixteen when he took my virginity, I'm 18 now and my boyfriend is turning 21 in less than a month. We are in a monogamous relationship (I hate sharing and so does he haha) and started having unprotected sex a year ago after we both got tested and both our tests came out clean. Our sex life is very healthy, we live together and are very much in love so our sex drive is pretty high. I love blowing him (he says I've got a mouth made for ******** and I guess he's quite right hehe), it's my favourite thing to do apart from being ******. I really like the feel of his **** in my mouth and how crazy I can drive him when I deepthroat him or let him **** my face. I don't always swallow but I actually like the taste of him on my tongue so it doesn't bother me when he comes in my mouth (I've never really understood why some people find it gross tbh, though my man tastes pretty sweet so I guess I'm quite lucky). Most of the time (as in almost always) I'm the one getting ******, we do switch sometimes but it's pretty rare and we both like it better when I bottom anyways. I just love the way he feels inside me, whether it's a slow and romantic love making or a wild and hard *******. I like his fingers too, he's very good with his hands. I don't mind him being a bit rough with me or bossing me around (which can be quite a turn on) as long as I'm in the mood for it and that it doesn't go overboard and my boyfriend respects and understands that. We like trying new positions and new sexual experiences and are not afraid to talk about our kinks, our fantasies, what we want to do, what we like or don't etc. Recently, my boyfriend told me he would like to try ******* me and while the idea doesn't repulse me I don't really know what to expect. What does it feel like to be rimmed ? Does it really feel that good ? Do you have any tips to make sure it's going to be enjoyable for both the giver and the receiver ? I know you have to be squeaky clean, and that's not going to be a problem because I always wash myself thoroughly, but do you have any other advices ? I don't really want him to rim me through a condom or some **** but if it's absolutely necessary I'm willing to do it this way. I just don't want to do anything that is not safe for my boyfriend or myself (I've heard stories about infections etc., does it happen often ? how can it be avoided ?). My boyfriend really wants to do it and I have to admit that I'm a bit curious too so maybe you could share your '******* experiences' with me ?
youmakeitstop youmakeitstop
18-21, M
1 Response Nov 26, 2012

It's hard to tell how you would react. It has never done much for me but friend of mine told me that his bum orgasmed once when his boyfriend was doing to him. I have been brought off by a guy who very gently diddled the outside of my bumhole and I have successfully *********** off the same way. Good luck with the experiment.