I found a wonderful bikini and I took some photos of myself in it (they are posted in my album on here) to make sure I felt comfortable wearing it to the pool. I loved it!!! I went with a friend and she wore hers as well. To my surprise, we did not get ANY rude comments! There were kids there too and you know they will sometimes do stuff like that, but they didn't. I think the fact that I felt comfortable, as did my friend, made the difference. I really do love getting fatter and I love the way fat looks on me too!