Love Getting Them But...

I never do. I can't think of one time my current BF of almost three years ever got me flowers. I pretend like it doesnt bother me, which in the big scheme of things, it really doesn't. I just think that it would be nice every once and a while to get a beautiful smelling token of his feelings for me, without me having to say, hey, I like flowers and I would like you to get them for me. But I realize this is kinda unrealistic and thus dont allow it to bother me. Besides, it's eaiser to get the kinda flowers i would like if I just buy them for myself :D
kayakgurl kayakgurl
26-30, F
1 Response Aug 13, 2010

I don't see the problem with dropping hints about liking flowers or wanting to get them. You have to remember that us men in general are... stupid! A lot of us don't get it and don't pick up on the subtleties of relationships. Sometimes you just have to whack us on the head with a proverbial 2x4 to get us to understand. I'm not saying we all need it, just about 99.99% of us. Drop some not to subtle hints like "It sure would be nice if someone could give me flowers!" As a guy who "gets it" I don't see a problem with it!