Rules To Date By. # 5

Don't rush it.
Each relationship is going to move at it’s own pace. If you try to rush it or , by the same means, take it too slow, it’s bound to fall apart on you. Let it flow at it’s own pace and take on a life of it’s own. It will go at the speed it wants, and not the way you wish it to.
Every once in a while, we need to say “Whoa. I need some time alone, or with my friends.” But we don’t. At that point I can promise either a breakup or a homicide is imminent. We all need some time to decompress. I’m sure that if you give it to each other, and to yourself, things will go a whole lot smoother. Whether or not you realize it. Just be sure to pay attention to what the flow is and proceed to act accordingly, or it may wash away without you.
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36-40, M
Nov 28, 2012