I Know I Am a Broken Record Already But

my husband has ruined this for me as well. in the beginning we used to go out all the time. weekends, weekdays. all the time. and it didnt even have to be expensive. we would walk so many places. walk to the park. walk to the mall. just having fun. then i got a jeep and we became spoiled driving everywhere. now that he has crashed the jeep we dont go anywhere unless we rent a car. and you know in this econmy that is few and far between when we can do that. but my thing is why cant we go back to walking and going out and enjoying life. so what we dont have a car, it didnt stop us before why should it stop us now. but he is the king of the road block. if something happens he doesnt say on to plan B. he instead says oh lord why has thou forsaken me. its really taking a toll on me!

goldie25 goldie25
31-35, F
2 Responses Mar 4, 2009

i totally see what your saying vetro but being that you dont know me, you also dont know that my husband has turned into this control freak also. he is lazy now and he hates me being proactive too. he hates me going to work, even though i am the only one working. he even hates me to clean the house. he wants me under him every second. yet when i am under him he berates me and treats me like **** half of the time. i dont know what he is going through but its so ugly and unbearable.

JUST GO AND WALK.IF YOU GO BY YOURSELF HE MIGHT JUST WANT TO GO WITH YOU AFTER A WHILE. MY WIFE NEVER WALKS WITH ME. I HATE THAT BUT THAT IS THE WAY IT IS. STILL I ENJOY WALKING, AND WILLCONTINUE TO DO SO. IT IS PEACEFUL,CALMING, AND FUN. <br />
GOOD LUCK AND KEEP BUGGING HIM-- HE WILL LIKE IT.