Harsh, abusive and crude comments about my wife or to my wife gets you one thing: NO invitation to return for more activity. If that's what it takes to turn you on, then you have to seek it elsewhere.  Sex is a fun, relaxing, even beautiful thing.  Why ruin it with garbage?
SwGaMan SwGaMan
61-65, M
1 Response Sep 18, 2012

why did you even come to this group if you aren't into what it espouses? People who are into abuse don't go to the vanilla sex group and say "you people are so sick, with your loving, missionary sex" We are all glad you enjoy sex with your wife, but no one cares if you don't call her a *****.

Oh, and my sex with my gf is beautiful as well, even when I am calling her a *****.

So, what you're saying is that I don't have a right to express my beliefs?

Yes, please don't