The Art of Kissing

 I love kissing.

 Kissing is like a fingerprint. Each person is different. Some kissers are soft and sensual, teasing by lightly brushing their lips against yours. Some kissers are hard and passionate as if it were the last kiss ever - like they were on a plane about to hit the ocean, so every second counted. Others kind intermix the two in a hypnotic dance.

 Then there are the lousy kissers.  The ones who don't really try because they just want to have sex.  I'm not knocking their sexual skills, but it's always a plus to know what foreplay is. It's just bad that they learned how to kiss from their dog. It's like they know how to dance, but they fall down on their way to the dance floor.

 I miss kissing. My last girlfriend didn't kiss much.  It's not like I can go to the kissing store and stock up either. It's disappointing.

 Maybe they could start a kissing gym so you could keep in shape for the big game.  I'm sure it would be popular, especially if they could teach you how to do tongue push ups. If I win the lottery, maybe I'll start it.  I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow
41-45, M
52 Responses Feb 20, 2008

Kissing gymkanna .... now that's a class I would frequent.

I meant boggles!!!!

Kissing gym. Boogles my mind! Would that include tongue weights, mouth excerise gym balls, special kissing dummies...I love to join in but I don't think I could keep a straight face...

Up until a few days ago, I hadn't kissed anyone in over three years, and my last experience was far from the ecstasy you'd expect from a good soulful kiss. For the first time in years I finally kissed and made love to someone I truly care about, and I felt rejuvenated by it. It gave me some much needed hope for life to know that something actually can be that perfect and beautiful. And I love how each person has their own style, and also enjoy adapting to their ways. Absolutely amazing. ^^

i like kissing... and foreplay :)

A great kiss is not only a wonderful experience all on it's own, it is and should always be an integral part of many other great things too :)

I hate it when my boyfriend kisses me while he's stubbly :(. I get the worst rash.<br />
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Regardless, I love kissing him anyway. :)

OP - Very good post here. Sadly, I live with one of those lousy kissers. Very selfish...doesn't even touch me 99% of the time. But, I've accepted it and I try to concentrate on other things that are more important to me in my life. But yeah, I miss kissing too...

Yes I love kissing too. I kiss my wife evry morning <BR>and I kiss my mother's hand and whan my femily meets I kiss my sister's hand.<BR>Aziz

Aw, this is such a lovely writing. I feel like kissing someone now :)

Aw, this is such a lovely writing. I feel like kissing someone now :)

Oh I can not even explain how much I agree with you!!! I hate in sex when people just kinda stick there tounge out there, its like they can't do two things at once. I love kissing so much... it makes stuff more passionate. I haven't kissed in forever! :(

aren't the moments before a kiss the best? when you both know what's going to happen but are still looking at eachother's lips, wetting them, slightly parting the lips... and then poof you kiss! so great when there's chemistry, so not when there's none and you open your eyes while the other is doing what they think is a kiss... and you're thinking "huh? what now?"

I have actually "taught" a male friend of mine to "French kiss"!!! He has been married for over 20 years!!! & in all that time, no sensual kissing?????

I miss kissing...

I would be in on that kissing gym idea. Just make sure there are trainers!

its a art that some dont want to learn. its like when done right it hightens all your sents and takes you to a new level of love making and some times just kissing is the love making ,with out being make love to its great to have a lover thats really a great kisser and knows how to make you weak in the kneese. <br />
i had a old boy friend when i was younger boy he could melt<br />
your lips just by kissing you wow is all you can say and i think those who know how to kiss like that i think theyve got it!

Do you think that is possible?

YES!!! But, do you know what I am talking about...when time stops. That feeling...I want it naturally.

C!!!!!<br />
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Yes, you are right. Really, really right. <br />
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I love the moments of kissing when you feel like you are susupended in the air.

Both and neither... It's kind of complex, like a symphony of sensations and rhythm. The music isn't a constant, but the crescendo of a feeling.

Yeah...that is the best way to kiss. When you are feelings each other's should be easier, it is like being in a trance. To really communicate during sex, it takes a lot of study.