Did you see Pretty Woman?

Do you remember that Vivian would not allow johns to kiss her on the mouth? She wouldn't even let Edward kiss her on the mouth at first. It's too personal, too intimate to kiss just anybody on the mouth.

I do not like sloppy, messy kisses...slobber is not sexy.
I do not like a tongue trying to make contact with my tonsils.

I like soft kisses on the mouth...the corners of the mouth.
I like soft licks of the tongue on the lower lip...the upper lip...the coners of the mouth.
I like gentle nibbles on the lower lip.

As passion builds, deeper kisses are nice...
In another group somewhere, I posted an article called "The Art of Kissing".

Found it...

I did not write this but I like it...

Make sure your lips aren't dry - moistening them (but not too much) makes it easier for your lips to slide over your partner's. Use colorless, stick lip balm for best results. Squeezable balm will work too but use in moderation. You don't want to smear shiny Carmex all over your partner.

When French Kissing. Don't dive straight for the tonsils. Play with their tongue - caress, fondle, wrestle with it. Think of it as trying to massage the other's tongue. NEVER bite; you could easily hurt the other person.

Let your partner take the lead sometimes and get used to his or her style. Give each other chances to lead and you may find a different way you like to kiss.

Close your eyes just before your lips touch. Some people enjoy looking into their partner's eyes when kissing, but for most, it's a huge creepy turn off. Keep them closed and you will enjoy it more. Think about how blind people sense so much more than sighted people, the same principle applies. You will get a more rushing sensation from the touch and feel of a kiss if your eyes are relaxed and closed.

Use your hands! Don't let your arms awkwardly hang there. Guys, your hands should be around her back, waist, or on the sides of her face. Girls, your hands can be in a NUMBER of places, including: around his neck, on the sides of HIS face, on his stomach, on his hips, or a guy's favorite, on his biceps. Also don't be afraid to run your fingers through your partner's hair, just make sure your hair is clean just in case it happens to YOU!

Let them know what they are doing is good. Softly moan, sigh, or kiss back harder if what they are doing is pleasurable. Girls, if you are holding their arms/biceps, give a little squeeze plus a moan to drive them nuts.

Use your tongue in the way you want your partner to use his/hers - both of you will naturally do the same.

If you're smaller than the partner you're going to kiss, then hold your head a little back and stand on your tiptoes if comfortable. If you are a girl and you are shorter, as it is in most cases, wrap your arms around his neck and he will naturally wrap his around your waist and lift you up.

If you're taller than the partner you're going to kiss, bend your head a little down and keep your legs a little wide apart for the other person to stand.

If you're a bit intimidated by French Kissing, don't be! It sounds scary only because it is not as easy as a regular kiss, but just do it in small steps. First, start kissing like a normal kiss, then slowly open your mouth and touch your partner's tongue softly with yours. They will get the hint and go from there!

Relax! As long as your are comfortable and at ease, your kiss will be pleasurable for both you and your partner. Just empty your mind of everything except the moment at hand and you will master the art of kissing.

OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley
26-30, F
4 Responses Aug 5, 2012

I think in the movie last of the Mohican the kiss that they were to portray was more than a performance it was beautiful

I never actually saw that. I should one day.

I think in the movie last of the Mohican the kiss that they were to portray was more than a performance it was beautiful

Great post, good advise for both partners. I liked all of things you said and agree with all of it.


The right kiss can make your head spin, make you short of breath, your eyes roll back, and your thoughts empty! Helen Hunton "Mad About You" used to give the sexiest kisses, I always wanted her to kiss me like that.

I remember that show but I must not have noticed the kisses since I don't recall them.

She would grab his face and kiss him with such passion and love, it was amazing.

That's nice. I looked for it on You Tube but couldn't find it...found a lot of Mad About You clips but none of her kissing him.