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I Love Making Love

Making Love Is So Exciting

By: SupermanDC
Written on September 23rd, 2011
Age: 51-55 , Male
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27 responses
  • candyliciouz

    This is so true. I agree. When you are in love it is not a chore to make love to your mate.

    Mar 4
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  • terry71

    so so true . . . . theres times when words are just to small for feelings, too blunt and crude . . . . you write well, I know what you mean . . . .

    Mar 4
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  • awriterpaul

    There is a world of difference between having sex and making love. When we are young, it's all hurry and uncontrolled. For so many males, it is getting to the climax. But, after you get out of the hurry phase, you can take your time and truly make love which is giving your partner pleasure without regard to your own needs. So, the "quickies" should go the way of hula hoops. It is a joy just to give physical and mental pleasure to a partner. It's really very much like love...the more you give away, the more you get in return. And, the act is supplying love.
    -Paul

    Nov 4, 2012
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  • HardingP119

    Ahem... nice

    Oct 24, 2012
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  • ThoseTearsofJoy

    My mouth is still on the floor after reading this....I could have written this myself. I was just telling someone the same exact thing!! Time changes everything.....when all you have is time..you make the bond you share even more secure. I love to feel everything and this is one way that I can show all the passionate I feel.......There is never a doubt!

    Sep 27, 2012
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    • SupermanDC

      Thanks for your wonderful comments ... I believe in this completely and with great passion.

      Sep 27, 2012
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  • SupermanDC

    Thanks for all your comments here ...

    Aug 27, 2012
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  • justbob45

    Not work so much as feeling and communication but I get waht you mean. If you are always more into the other person that you are into yourself, that is when it is beautiful.

    Aug 26, 2012
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  • LostInTheWoulds

    I hope you can find someone to enjoy that kind of passion with again. I think you are exactly right with your assessment.

    Jul 12, 2012
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    • SupermanDC

      I found another woman ... her name is Stephanie. I just met her 4 weeks ago. I had been on 5 dates with her.

      Aug 27, 2012
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    • LostInTheWoulds

      Great news! I hope it works out!

      Aug 27, 2012
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    • candyliciouz

      How is it going now?

      Mar 4
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  • CharleeLuv

    I dont think I want to do it anymore. It takes alot of...WORK. I cant believe I now have to add SEX to my list of worries and complications. Yep. Im SO not having sexual intercourse. =)

    Jul 10, 2012
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    • justbob45

      It isn't really work. It's just paying attention to your lover.

      Aug 26, 2012
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    • CharleeLuv

      Which involves...WORK. Plus, sweat and saliva and that other stuff..not appealing. But everyone is different. =)

      Sep 14, 2012
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  • Pantoufles

    I'm sorry SupermanDC, that you broke up, but I think your beliefs about relationships will serve you well as guiding principles in your future love interests. I especially liked the part about creativity, not always doing the same thing, and that sex and love go hand in hand. Don't give up! :)

    Jul 9, 2012
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    • SupermanDC

      Thanks ... appreciate the kind words here.

      Jul 9, 2012
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  • phatnhapi

    Superman i love how you described your relationship with Barbara. It makes me very happy to see a couple in love and having a healthy and wonderful sex life. I believe sex with a loving partner is part of the glue that holds you together. Important for both partners to have the same level of sex drive or one partner is always left wanting. You must have very good communication with your beloved too. I have a feeling your conversations with each other must be very enjoyable and you want to talk to each other about many things. Thanks for commenting and rating up my story. It led me to finding your story, what a happy coincidence! xox

    Jul 8, 2012
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    • SupermanDC

      I hate to say this, I wrote this last year and sad to say that we broke up for two issues that she does not want me to change. Barbara and I had a long distance relationship that went on since 1987 and we have a lot of common but she wanted me to leave my family and friends back home and move to a different state. I told her that I can't because of my involvement with several groups that I belong that needs my expertise. We broke up last March and sorry to share that with you this morning.

      Jul 8, 2012
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    • phatnhapi

      I must admit i do get caught up in the emotion of stories and i fail to look at the date they were written. I am sorry to hear of your breakup too. You are in charge of running your life the way you have to and if that means giving up a relationship to do it, then it must be the right thing for you. You will probably find another person in your same state who may be involved in some of your fields of expertise. I would like to see that happen for you anyway. I can understand that moving may not always be an option for everyone. I still admire the years you kept the relationship going. :)

      Jul 8, 2012
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  • Sungirl3

    Well said Superman :)

    Jul 6, 2012
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  • nickleplateman

    Superman,

    You said it beautifully. I have not read something about sex as well said here as you have just written. Thanks for writing it. I can not add anything to what you said nor would I want to take anything away from it.

    Again thanks.

    Jul 4, 2012
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  • frosew

    It is the most beautiful experience shared between a man and women...a perfect fit of opposites...that become one. Thanks o sharing!

    Jun 29, 2012
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  • parakeet8157

    It takes effort on both people involved.

    Apr 30, 2012
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  • luckylassie

    i wouldnt call it work, more like effort. effort that comes natural like when you need extra energy your body gives you what you need.

    Jan 10, 2012
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