Its all in how you look at it...

The first thing to establish in accountability for both partners is trust/ confidentiality

Its an unwritten agreement...If broken it can be very damaging. But kept it can be very rewarding.

To spill your guts all in a first session is crazy; that's how opportunists work.

It makes you look in the mirror and see yourself honestly.

I believe accountability can include loss of privileges extra assignments and in my thinking there's nothing wrong with spanking in this relationship in fact many of us need it. I need it.

I need correction I have gone too far in life with an unexamined life and no correction.

We all have our secret lies.


BanMan BanMan
41-45, M
2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

Torah his own- thanks for your response. Jim

Thanks for responding. I think that I understand where you are coming from
Let me know if I can do anything to further assist you. Thanks. Jim