I love to give or recieve a massage. They should not be hurried, they should be long and slow. massaging the complete body. And they should be not too rough. Too just lay there and and feel the warmth of the others fingers rubbing, caressing and relaxing the sore stiff muscles...mmmmmmm. Heaven. And ofcourse giving is just as rewarding. Feeling the other person reacting to your touch, easing all the tention from their body. Yep i love it.