ive been with my soldier for 2 months he's away at basic and i'm coping okay. i keep having these bad thoughts though and i thought you could help me out. there is girl (who happens to be my cousin) she is a little over excited to be friends with him. he claims that they are like brother and sister and nothing more but when i bring up hiim not hanging out with her or not talking to her it starts a fight. idk if he is telling the truth and i have nothing to worry about of if he's hiding something. someone please help me out!