100 Reasons

I was thinking about my list of 100 Reasons To Live and I thought I could probably name 100 reasons I love my bf. We've been together about a year and we live together so, though this may take more than a couple edits I think I can definitely do it.

100 Reasons

  • He can fix nearly everything that's wrong w/ a car.
  • His smell.
  • The way he loves his son.
  • The way he still takes care of his mom even though she drives him batty. (She'd drive a nun to cuss.)
  • He hardly snores at all.
  • He gets me to try new things. (I would like to take this moment to thank him for introducing me to sushi.)
  • He always, always tells me he thinks I'm beautiful and sexy.
  • He encourages me to run.
  • He encourages me to have my vegetarian days & to stick w/ it.
  • He texts me "I Love You" just to do it.
  • He's pretty bad*ss on the grill.
  • He "makes" me be social.
  • He doesn't watch football, NASCAR or anything like that that would make me want to scream.
  • He does watch car shows but that benefits me as well...you know, w/ the whole he can fix nearly anything thing. :)
  • The day after I had a horrible, horrible  panic attack he encouraged me to stay home & nap...he stayed home w/ me and that helped me more than I could ever tell him.
  • He uses the number Eleventy-Four (11dy4) and it always tickles me.
  • His sweet tooth.
  • His stubbornness (that's a love/hate thing ).
  • The way he loves the dogs that I brought to the relationship. I can honestly say that they are OUR dogs now.
  • His tattoos. They.Are.SEXY!
  • The way he kisses.
  • The way he reaches for me in his sleep.
  • His baby blues.
  • That he colors his hair.
  • That he swears those are blonde hairs growing when we all really know otherwise...
  • The way he loves women. He just can't help himself. And the funny thing is, at least to me, I trust him. I really believe he is faithful to me.
  • He is selfish of my time. I utterly adore that.
  • His need to have at least 60 hours on the DVR at all times. What is WITH that? lol
  • His willingness to let me be by myself more than he probably considers normal.
  • He is not disturbed by my little dark moments.
  • His cleanliness (which encourages my cleanliness).
  • His goofiness. He wouldn't say he is goofy. But he totally has his moments.
  • When he says, "WHATEVER." He says it really quick in the petulant voice &  it always elicits a giggle.
  • The way he says, "Lydia, transform!" then makes Transformer noises. hahahaha!
  • His drive.
  • He works two jobs to help support us.
  • His shoe fetish (as in he loves to buy shoes not lick my high heels).
  • That he hates feet as much as I do.
  • His utter lack of interest in what people think of him (95% of the time. I can't say all the time bc he asks me which shoes he should wear w/ that shirt. lol).
  • When it's just between the two of us he gets over spats quickly.
  • He likes to be w/ me...like he wants me to come sit & talk to him while he trims his face hair or wants me to come shower w/ him after work...
  • The way he wakes me up in the mornings. He comes in the bedroom and snuggles me awake w/ the doggies. I can't imagine a nicer way to wake up.
  • He compliments me cooking.
  • His desire to travel.
  • His love of shiny things. He would never word it that way but he does like shiny. lol
  • The way he does things for me w/o question.
  • The way he teases me, even when it ticks me off.
  • Sometimes when we are hanging around watching a movie he'll come over to the couch where I'm laying & lay w/ me and kiss on me.
  • He helps me pick what to do w/ my hair. (like new color or cut)
  • He makes kissy noises at me. That sounds a little derogatory but it is a sweet thing for us. He does it when I'm up doing stuff so it's sort of like a, "I know you are doing stuff, I love you" thing or he does it when he wants a kiss.
  • He calls me toots. I hope you don't pronounce that like poot. haha He says it like "Hi ya toots."
  • He is supportive of my rules regarding his son. That's a whole other thing that I'm not explaining here.
  • He is a loyal friend.
  • He calls me everyday at lunch & on his way to his second job.
  • He emails me on his breaks.
  • He can talk to anyone.
  • He knows when to buy flowers & actually bought me the type of rose that I had mentioned way before my birthday.
  • So, in other words he pays attention...sometimes. :)
  • I kept asking him to pick out a perfume that he likes so I can get some. I wanted it to be unique to me. (I'm just a big smell person) For Christmas he bought me some that he picked out. He smelled perfume in the store for half an hour.
  • He's cute when he sleeps.
  • Even when he's been a complete A*S & I've flayed him w/ my words he still pet my head before he fell asleep.
  • He has put up w/ some serious crap lately. I've been absolutely crazy and he's still here. The other night he looked at me and said, "I'm glad you aren't crazy tonight, baby." All I could do was laugh and say, "Me, too."
  • He surprises me w/ a strawberry Fanta after he got off work early today.
  • He shamelessly watches old Elvis movies
  • He's doing everything he can financially so I can repaint his house when we move in in May after his xxwife leaves.
  • He's going to put up a fence for the dogs
  • He only sighs loud once when I want to go in Sephora
  • He always drives
  • He's a fun drunk
  • He's hopeful
  • He doesn't bow to stress easily
  • This is going to sound shallow maybe. It doesn't sound really good, but he paid off two of my credit cards. There was one under $500 and another under $1500. I know that's not much comparatively but it still meant all the world to me.
  • He loves to eat just like me
  • He's adventurous
  • He lives this life
  • He watched Juno bc I begged him to & he ended up chuckling more than twice & he liked the movie to which I say, "HA! I TOLD YOU SO!" and "Thank you for branching out."
  • He started encouraging to work out again & he's doing not bc of how I look but bc he knows I'm happier when I work out. I am blessed.
  • He always, always asks before he deletes Leno in case some weird band has played that's something he's never heard of but is one of my favorites. :)





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    42 Responses Jan 8, 2008

    Damit who is this? Aren't you Jai? A MAN?? I'm pissed....Are you a Woman!! I wanna know I have shared myself with you? I thought we were close! Who are you?? I have tons of Pics of you?? Or who I think is You??

    I Don't know you! I'm so sick of FAKE PEOPLE!! I thought you were a MAN!! We have known each other awhile are you telling me your a ******* WOMAN?? ARE you JAI OR NOT??

    THIS IS A LOVE LETTER TO A MAN?? I don't get this at all....I'm n shock and I want some answers!! I tried to PM you but I can't!

    Wait a Min this post is Jan 2008! What's going on here?

    are you a woman ???

    You gota keeper! Thank you for sharing your wonderful Relationship.

    He had me fooled. We were talking everyday then poof gone. I am so tired of guys like this. I thought he was a real friend. What a fake.

    So what are you an adult lesbian, a gay man with a boyfriend you love or are you a young girl

    He was married to another woman and doing all of this? Okay, is he divorced now? Guess we'll never know. I'm guessing it's a big "NO". Account has been deleted.

    That sounds like such a great guy. I need to find a man just like him

    i liked your list 100 reasons.

    Just noticed the date...are you still with him?...your 100 things were so sweet...

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    He had to take that time to cast his memories away. To clear his mind and start anew!

    this is the dumbest **** ever

    even bigger jerk

    very good ' toots.'

    hi how r u today? just wondering if you can add me to your circle? also do u wear high heels if so how high??

    I was living with my husband for 5 years and everything was moving so fine. until one morning a call came in and when i picked the call, a ladies spoke to me saying he wants to speak with my husband and when i asked who she is, she said that she is a girlfriend to my husband and she asked me too who i was, for me not to curse any dispute, i lied to her, so when my husband came back i asked him he lied to me, that night i was so down, i broke in tears and left the house for finding out that my husband is cheating on me, but i loved him so much, i thought of what to do to make him love me passionately, so a friend gave me clue on what to do that i should contact spell caster, So i went into search in the Internet so fortunately i found good testimonies on how this prophet harry has helped a lot of people in my condition, so i contacted prophetharry@ymail.com and he worked a spell on me and my husband, getting back my husband was the most important thing i was after, this spell worked like nothing I had ever seen in my life .after 3 days of the spell was casted my husband came begging me to come back home, he promised to be faithful to me and promised never to cheat on me again, Iā€™m happy now and free. my problems are solved<br />
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    awwwwww they are so cute together

    that's nice :-)

    That was so sweet :)

    does this guy have a account on here?? no i am not interested

    Did no one else notice that she said he had a wife that he had not left yet! curious now to know if he has left the wife by now! cos it is some time since this was written!!

    Yes. I noticed. I hope his sweetness remains....not to be negative, but one year is early...

    praying for you guys...

    Love this, best wishes to you! :D

    You're both lucky to have each other

    He shounds like a beautiul man, a loving caring individual that deserves all that he gives twice back,<br />
    he seems to be a jewel around all the carp that surrounds us. I would think making love with him is heaven if not close to it...

    Now I want to do something like this lol. Very nice.

    this is so sweet<3

    This sounds a lot like me and my girl :) very touching! I wish my girl had the courage to do something liek that for me lol but shes shy so i just let her be herself :)

    i wish my boyfriend would be like that.....

    i bit you can list 100 reasons to hate him !!!!!! lol

    Excellent. Sounds like you got a wonderful guy there, Now, is he willing to relinquish the remote?

    Love Flirting girlfriend boyfriend<br />
    Feels so good<br />

    my name is yaneli<br />
    my boy friends name is jose posada<br />
    i love him sooo muchh<br />
    my bf isssss.......<br />
    cute<br />
    funny<br />
    loving<br />
    good dancer<br />
    tells me in pretty,beatiful<br />
    he is playful<br />
    he is smart<br />
    his is mexican and salvadorian<br />
    he loves me alot<br />
    his very jelous(only becuz he loves me)<br />
    he is good at foot ball<br />
    he is fast runner<br />
    he doesnt smoke<br />
    he holds me infront of friends<br />
    kisses me all the time <br />
    he gots big cheeks<br />
    a cute face<br />
    he has a mashtash<br />
    wonderful smile<br />
    cute laugh<br />
    my man<br />
    kisses me every night<br />
    he blesses me everynight<br />
    hes a good driver<br />
    a hard worker<br />
    and theres alot more but i love my boyfriend<br />
    so mucchh im 16 i been with him since 10-15-08<br />
    i love him forever <333 so so muchhh..i was<br />
    his first love and so is he:)<br />
    -yaneli Garcia + jose posada<3 always y para siempre

    Wow he sounds great. Dont let anything screw up your relationship bc I have a great man who I've been with for two and a half years and we r letting little things bother us and it's not going well. So don't lose him. You will regret it forever.

    so cute i like it

    and i love my guy...cant count the reasons..so wont even try....but here is the first and the biggest one...i love him just cz its him...n hnstly...i dnt need any other reason..

    i love reading about happy relationships it gives me hope i wish the best to you two :D

    awwww...you gave me a great idea, thank you very much

    awwww...you gave me a great idea, thank you very much

    awwww...you gave me a great idea, thank you very much

    We got about an hour into Juno last night. I'm loving it so far. Very good.

    Sounds like you guys really have something special :)

    He's a great catch. Congratulations.

    The transformer thing made me giggle.

    You seem really happy in your relationship, congratulations! :)

    He sounds like an awesome guy :) I like hearing stories about happy relationships, it makes me smile.