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Me and My Cousin Fell Love At First Sight!!

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It all started when i went to visit my auntie and uncle in canada from england, i have got 3 cousins, 2 are girls who i remember when i was younger, but i have also got a male cousin, who i dont remember at all when i was little because they moved to canada when i was 11yrs old and when my cousin was 6yrs old, so we never got to know eachother.

It all started a few days after i had got there and me and my cousin hit it off straight away we had sooo....much in common and he was just like me when i was his age 19yrs old.

We loved the same music we played alot of badminton, and i have a daughter who is 20 months, im not with the father no more long story!! And he got on with her so well and took her to see the horses etc.

Me and his friends went to a nightclub one night whilst my auntie was babysitting my daughter, we became very touchy feely, and at the club i instantly knew i was into him soo...much, when we left one of the clubs he grabbed my hand, my smile beamed from ear to ear, i was falling for my cousin big time.

On the way home in the car we were sat behind his sister who was driving and we were holding hands, it just felt so good and right!!

A few days later nothing had happened apart from the odd touching and stroking eachothers arm or holding hands.

I said to him one day why is it you cant always get the guy you want, and he looked at me and agreed, i was confused as to whether he knew what i meant.

That night whilst in his room we were watching Jackass alone, and we held hands and we looked at eachother and i told him how i felt he told me he felt exactly the same, we then kissed and it was as though our lips were meant for eachother, after we pulled away it was the most amazing feeling in the world, and we both turned and said how right it felt. We thought there might of been weirdness or a boundarie and wrongness because we were related, we are cousins..but to me and to him it just felt like the rightest thing in the world.

As few more things had happened since then, which you can probably imagine, that felt right too.

We spent a lot of alone time at night, even the night before i went back to england...it was amazing spending every minute with him.

The day we were going we held eachother so tight and he whispered he loved me i said it back.

Since the day i left we have been emailing, talking on messenger, texting and calling eachother. We are so in love...and we are planning on spending our lives with eachother, and i am going to see him in 2 weeks for a weeks holiday and he is coming to england in august for 6 months.

Our families dont know, and if they did they would definitely stop us from seeing eachother as well as being dissapointed so we are not planning on telling anyone. They think were just close cousins.

We dont like the fact that we cant tell them because our family is very important to us, but we know if we love eachother then its the only way to stay together if it has been a few years then we will consider it. But until then we are just going to enjoy the time we do have together.

If there is anyone in the same boat please contact me because im feeling alone right now, some of our friends know but we cant tell them all.

 

juiliet juiliet 21-25, F 182 Responses May 14, 2007

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i also love my cousin and we both know that we love each other but shes scared we just broke up because shes afraid that our family will find out im 16 shes 15 and in 2 years im going into the navy to serve our country and by then i want a girl that i can be with forever someone i can write to and i want that person to be my cousin. could someone please help me i dont know what to do our last names are totally different i think she might even only be related by marriage im will to sacrafice my world for her, if anyone has had a succesful relationship with there cousin and now lives happily ever after with him or her please email me at ted935y6@live.com i need all the help i can get

As Tamarah said, who says it's wrong? It used to be the most common thing back in the older days. If cousins get married, who says their even going to have kids? And you don't even know if the kids will have anything. Did you know that the kids have just as much chance as having a disability as anyone else? Look around you. There are people with all kinds of disabilities without anything to do with cousin love.<br />
People get married for all kinds of reasons that have nothing to do with love. These reasons can range from gaining wealth and social status to escaping from a bad home life or to gain permanent residence to the United States. These are barely looked down upon. But when it comes to things like homosexuals and cousins LOVING each other, our society turns up it's nose and screams DISGUSTING! <br />
The fact is you don't choose who you fall in love with. You can't.<br />
If you're a bible worshipper, there is nothing in the bible that states cousin love and marriage is wrong. In fact; if Adam and Eve were the first, what do you think had to happen between their children for our species to go on? And on. And on. <br />
Some people need to grow up and accept that people who truly love each other love each other for their soul. They don't reject each other because of their blood. They see past what most selfish minds cannot.

I wish my family could read what you wrote. My cousin and I have to keep it a secret because noone knows the feeling of true love in my family I never knew the feeling of true love until I found my soulmate. Never new it was my cousin though! Thanks for the story I enjoyed reading it!

I also love my cousin, i am only 19 and he is 38. We cannot tell our family, because it would rip them apart and very few friends even know. It isnt just the cousin situation with us it is also the age gap being nearly 20 years. we did not grow up together only been the last year that we have had contact and we hit it off within a few weeks of meeting up. You cant help who you fall in love with, and if it is your cousin then thats how it is. Everything happens for a reason. It is so sad that we cant be together as a proper couple, but hope in the near future we could be. Society may think its wrong but is 100% legal so **** the society!!

Many many years ago Cousins use to merry Cousins in North America in some states in the U.S. it is legal to wed your cousin.. In other country's cousins are still getting married to each other. Even though some would argue it to be wrong and while other families would find shame upon it.. I say history shall repeat itself.. despite what you think your family will say, do what you feel is right but know the precautions behind it when it comes to the genetics. I know of a couple who were cousins and they married each other and had a child together.. that child was born deaf.

i love my cousin too...is a girl...tis feeling so confusing....like in tis only her know wat i thinking...she so pretty..many boy like her...but me donno she like me or no....when weekend i will bring her go play badminton too n jogging...1 week can see her 2 time...i feel my life so happiness...when i think she was my cousin i feel scare...i think canno love her... but why still canno forget her...so painful without her...she is a beauty girl i even see...i comment here cuz tis is my secret canno let my family know...i so scare....but in here my family donno + her also donno....in the end i wan to say "Pei Lyn I love You..forever, i will take care you n no let u know...."

I want to tell you abou me and my cousin<br />
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I had never been close to my younger cousin mainly because shes not my age and her parents sheltered her. While my parents let is do anything we wanted. I said hi to her at functions and thats about it. She never showed any signs of liking me intimatly. She is definetly a pretty girl. About 5"11", 115 lbs , very small,tight *** and thin legs. Her stomach toned and her C cup **** didnt bloom until she was 18. <br />
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She wore glasses and had a nerdy look to her. But, I learned she was living in a shell waiting to burst out and become a lustful,**** machine. I was invited to her 18th bday party/graduation party. I arrived late and gave her a gift i bought on the ride over. She opened it and thanked me with a big hug.<br />
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I talked to her about college and she told me how she was accepted to a few ivy leauge schools. I congratgulated her before she asked me to drive her to a friends house to sleep over. I asked her mother if she wanted me to drive her since it was on my way back home. She said,"thanks that wouls help alot since i have to clean up." I told the birthday girl to pack her things for her sleepover.<br />
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She asked me to help her with her bags. She led me upstairs to her room and quickly packed a bag and said,"i need to change real quick. I turned for the door and she said,"what?,youve never see a girl in her undies before?" I laughed and said,"plenty ,do you want me to hang in here while you change?" She stayed silent and pulled her jeans off as i sat on the bed. I glanced at her white cotton panties.<br />
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She pulled her top off and asked me if ihad a woman. I said no as she unclipped her bra and threw it across her room. She grabbed a sundress and threw it on and grabbed her bag. "Lets go!",she said with excitment. We walked down and said farewell to her mom and the lingering guests.<br />
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She hopped in my passenger seat and said,"I"m not really sleeping over anyones house," I said," well,what are you doing then?" She looked at me and hesitantly said,"i need to tell you something that you can not repeat!" I told her I don"t tell anyone Anything,especially something my lil cuz wanted to keep a secret.<br />
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I needed gas so i pulled in the station and parked at the pump. I looked at her as she gazed in my eyes and said,"I have been in love with you for years," I was blown away, She told me she has held it inside for too long and had to tell me that shes attracted to me on a high level. I told her that she was a smart,beautiful,woman but,we could never be a couple.<br />
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She said,"no **** sherlock! But, We can **** though." I thought deeply as she begged me to take her virgin *****. I said,"let me think for a miniute as i got out and pumped my gas.After returning to the car I looked at her and she had her dress pulled up and her panties down,slowly playing with her tiny ,shaved *****. She said," Take me somewhere and let me have your ****!"<br />
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I drove off ,heading to a local hotel. She pulled my hand over and said,"play with my fresh little *****!" I felt how tight she was when i had to force my index finger inside of her. She went down my pants with her hand until she grabbed my ****. She said in a demanding voice,"you better be gentle, as she ran her hand the length of my semi erect ****.<br />
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We pulled into the hotel and i got the room taken care of. we stepped into the elevator and she kissed me deeply and said,"this has been my dream since i have been old enough to like you." I replied," well,it will be good baby,i promise you that," We got off the elevator and went into our room. <br />
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I asked her,"want me to light candles and make it romantic?" She laughed and said,"get naked and make my dream a reality." She pulled her dress off and her perfect **** stared me in my face. She pulled her panties off as i took my shirt off and unbuckled my belt.<br />
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She knelt inferont of me and pulled my pants and denims down at once.My chubby hung there infront of her long and girthy. She looked at it and all she could say is ,"oh my god!"<br />
I looked down at her and told her to lick my ****. She grabbed my memeber and shoved the head in her tiny mouth and licked my **** like a lolipop. <br />
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Clearly she wad no experience so i guided her head on and off my shaft ,making her gag instantly. I let her go and she sucked my **** until it was hard as steel. I knelt down and kissed her before telling her to lay on the bed and let me taste that fresh *****.<br />
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She laid back and with her legs opened i slowly caressed her virgin ***** making her moan and feel sensations shes never felt. I slid a finger inside of her which made her groan out,"i want you inside of me now baby!" I looked up at her and said," remember baby,it is gonna hurt when i get inside of you<br />
if itll even fit!"<br />
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She demanded i lay on my back. She climbed on top of me and put her feet on my thighs, decended down and holding my swollen **** on her ***** lips and pressed onto it,making my **** bend before i spread her ***** a bit and my thick **** popped inside of her. She teared up and screamed,"**** my ***** feels like ots being torn to shreds!"<br />
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She stopped and said,"you do it baby,and dont hurt my little ***** with that thing." I grabbed her *** cheeks and spread her ***** as wide as i could and forced my bulging **** into her,spreading her soft walls for the first time until i hit her little cherry. I slowly pulled out of her and pumped her slow and shallow until she looked at me through her glasses and said,"pop me with your long ****,take me now!" <br />
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I grasped he hips and slammed her onto me,burting through her little ***** .making her screatch in agony. To my surprise she begged for more and clawed my chest screaming out my name as she slammed against my thrusts. I stopped her and said,"lay on your back so i can give you your real biorthday gift."<br />
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She slid off my **** and her gaping ***** was swollen and she said,"i love the pain your **** puts through my body!" She laid on her back and i mounted her and forced my **** inside her damaged ****. I pumped her long and deep staring at her eyes roll into her head. I put her legs back and pumped her so deep that my **** bottomed out inside her. I slid my throbbing **** hard and deep until i felt my precum shoot insode of her. I quickly asked were she wanted me to ***. <br />
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She screamed ,"fill me with your hot ****!" So, i laid deep within her and shot my massive load inside her now dry ****. She said,"just keep it in me until i say,ok?" So, I laid ionside of her until she passed out and I slowly pulled my soft **** out of her and laid in bed thinking about what just happened...

ewww that's sick! why are you telling everyone about your intimate moment with your cousin??? that's disgusting, no disrespect intended, but that's just sick!

I have spent more time with my cousin than lots of other members of my family. I saw him since I was a baby up until High school when we started growing apart.<br />
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Every holiday I would see him and when i walked in the door he used to hug me so hard he'd lift me off the floor. We'd play silly childhood games together. We'd play video games together and watch movies together. After the divorce i moved with my mother to live where he lived. I'd go visit him almost everyday because we enjoyed hanging out. If i didn't go see him he would come over to see me. For years I saw it as nothing more than friendship.<br />
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One day i was with him and some friends of mine. They started questioning me if I liked him. I became confused as well as angry telling them that he was family. Another time i was walking with him and someone questioned me if he was my boyfriend. In high school things drastically changed he would ignore me and then I learned it was because he had a girlfriend.<br />
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The visits stopped, our friendship fell apart. I never felt so empty. My mother talked me out of going to his graduation and then his wedding. Even my step sister began questioning my feelings for him. It makes me wonder if perhaps I did something wrong or freaked my family out somehow. I do love my cousin but in a pure way. I dont have perverted thoughts about him. <br />
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His family is Christian and i wonder if our relationship seemed dangerous to them. The last holiday i saw him he wouldn't even look at me. It hurts to know that someone you really care for an toss you aside so easily. <br />
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Out of all my family members I feel a great connection with him. I want him to be in my life if there is a second one. I don't care if he will still be family or not. Just having him there would be enough for me. I don't believe that that is wrong.

The exact same thing happened to me. I'm head over heels for my long-lost cousin. He's a year older than me and we met five years ago through an accidental phone book search. We were just kids... but we were like best friends the moment we met, and we're very close. <br />
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Anyways... it happened last night. Because we were so close and we both got dumped, him and i were talking about our slacker kissing skills. Then he got the idea to practice kissing... and it was beautiful. But, it had turned into a make-out session. It wasn't even awkward or icky, it was the most wonderful experience of my life. We proceeded downstairs so my aunt and uncle and my parents wouldn't suspect anything, but then he said he remembered something and he wanted me to come upstairs with him, and he game me his favorite Billy Talent concert t-shirt. I hugged him to say thanks. Later, I walked back to the kitchen to go look at it further... and he walked in, kissed me on the jaw and said "wear it to bed tonight and think of me." AND I DID! <br />
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We were also playing soccer in the backward with a balloon, and i was running with the balloon and he ran behind me, grabbed me by the waist and spun me around. It was so cute and i giggled through the entire thing, and when my brother wasn't looking, he kissed me on the neck. <br />
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When we were leaving, he hugged me tightly and told me that we have to hang out soon, because he'd die this summer without seeing me. I said next week and he said he'd try to wait, and he told me he loved me. <br />
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We of course can't say anything because we're cousins, but it's pretty obvious that we love each other. Who knows what will happen next?

hi...i also love my cousin...he lives in a different city hes 2 years older than me...i usually see him in summer vacation.... just when i think i forgot about him i see him or hear from him and the feelings are back. I dont know what to do...in my country is a big mistake to love someone of youre family...i think he likes me to coz he always comes near me..stays with me and all that stuff.... and in the october hes coming in my city to study so im gonna se him like everyday and im so confused.....i hope someone can help me about that i would be grateful...:(

Ya I felll this way about mi cuz but it is so advious that he likes me to and in the same way but I'm scared to confront him on it cause i don't want him not to like me that way and me fell so stupid and dumb and the reason I no he likes me the same way is because when he saw me his haw droped and he always class me his sweet heart but I dot no what to do I need help

Wow so many people all over the world falling in love with their couins. Nice to know that im not alone. <br />
My story with 3years i kissed my cousin,who was 2, at this time,it didnt mean anything at t beginn but i and he kept on kissing eachother till i was. 9^^ t sad thing is that he dont call me my first love,well we didnt had strong feelings for eachother,just the passion to kiss^^ <br />
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with 14 i met another cousin,it was holidays in brazil. So he shared the same flat with me and my bro,sis,mum and another aunt. we "lived" next to t sea, thats why we always took a walk along t beach at night (very romantic). What just started with a half hour walk as normal people,ended up that we kept hours walking and talking and we always kept walking and very close. Thats why everyone thought that he was my boyfriend,we just realised it when my mum caught us and said it too...<br />
We never kissed us,we just hugged eachother for almost half of the day and we kept saying "i love You"<br />
this make that i consider him my first real love...<br />
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my mum thinks that i just have my first boyfriend now with 18...so she forbidds me to leave t house as she i afraid that ill might see him...i wld love to tell her my real love story,but if i do that she will never let me talk to a guy again...

i,m a 49 yo male who grew up with my 1 yr younger cousin in holland.We where totally in love with each other at the ages of 17 and 16 and. long before that..Due to my confused childhood i joined a religion with whom i stayed with for 8 years hoping to find answers to my questions but decided they werent there.At the time when i joined this religion i told my love that i no longer could see her due to my newly aquired believes.How ffff.ng wrong i was! !32 yrs on i still hate myself for that desision not only because off what i missed out on but very much so for me hurting her so much.My only comfort is i believe is that shes found herself a husband and has a few kids.For myself i,m still single lonely and have become an alcoholic and disillusioned by this (dogma called religion).

At The Moment IM in The Same Feeling Meaning= I Am A teenanger And So Is my Cuzzin Shes 15 And Im 14 And I Love Her So Much And I Dnt Know She Loves Me We Spent Aware Childhood Together And Then Years Passed On We Stoped Talking To Each Other. And One Day She Came Online And Said Why, Dnt You Talk To Me... But Really I Pretended Not To Kknow Her... So We Came Friends And Now Shes Sayng To Me Why Ant i Accepting Her As Cuzzins But I Never Said Noting! I Dnt Know If She Has The Same Feeelings As Me.. But I Really Love Her To Bits..... But Does It Matter IF Im 1 Year Younger Then Her? Please Help...

I am in the simlar boat as you, But it been longer for me so don't worry your not the only one. Ive been with my cousin for 7 years now and he two years younger then me. We're also very much in love and want to share our lives together, a few of our friends now but none of our family knows too and we do plan and telling them. But only when we have the money to set a life together. He just finish Uni and I have a pretty low paid part time job. I would much prefer to run away though, but he thinks we should just tell them when the time is right. Your not alone out there and there plenty or people out there too in the simlar boat. Your from the Uk like me so it not illigal just frowned upon and you shouldn't let that get you down if yout in love I certain don't. Cause I know he the only one who can make me happy and well you got soaps like Emerdale whose cousin relationships like Cain and Charity Dingle ect.

well I suddenly realized how much I love my cousin. I fell in love with him and even though I am married and he is married and he has 1 kid and I have 3 kids , I can feel that we are meant to be together. His wife do not give him love at all. It seems that she is only for his money, because he is rich.<br />
She was already 6 months pregnant on their wedding, so the insecurity is there- which means that there is no love between them at all. The day I have sent love to him mentally- that same love mentally i got back in return. I wish I could email him and explain him how I feel, but dont want his wife to know and break it.<br />
How to know what he really feels towards me? what are the signs if he really does love me?

In much of Asia and North Africa excluding parts of India more than 10% of marriages are between cousins. At least two US presidents that I know of have married their cousins; Franklin D Roosevelt and Martin van Buren. Also, it was extremely common for Jews to marry their cousins. I'm pretty sure it is still common among the Eastern European Jews. Einstien himself married his cousin. Same with some modern oil rich Arab countries. But the funny thing is, I am Egyptian (live in america) and I also love my cousin and plan to marry her. The ancient Egyptians, in upper classes, almost exclusively married cousins (sometimes uncles and aunts which I agree is ****** up). This went on until the Greek era where the Greeks claimed it as a discouraged act (do not forget that the Greeks were homosexual by culture, soon to be or has already become an American part of life as well.) - very similar east vs west argument to the current state of the controversy.

In much of Asia and North Africa excluding parts of India more than 10% of marriages are between cousins. At least two US presidents that I know of have married their cousins; Franklin D Roosevelt and Martin van Buren. Also, it was extremely common for Jews to marry their cousins. I'm pretty sure it is still common among the Eastern European Jews. Einstien himself married his cousin. Same with some modern oil rich Arab countries. But the funny thing is, I am Egyptian (live in america) and I also love my cousin and plan to marry her. The ancient Egyptians, in upper classes, almost exclusively married cousins (sometimes uncles and aunts which I agree is ****** up). This went on until the Greek era where the Greeks claimed it as a discouraged act (do not forget that the Greeks were homosexual by culture, soon to be or has already become an American part of life as well.) - very similar east vs west argument to the current state of the controversy.

In much of Asia and North Africa excluding parts of India more than 10% of marriages are between cousins. At least two US presidents that I know of have married their cousins; Franklin D Roosevelt and Martin van Buren. Also, it was extremely common for Jews to marry their cousins. I'm pretty sure it is still common among the Eastern European Jews. Einstien himself married his cousin. Same with some modern oil rich Arab countries. But the funny thing is, I am Egyptian (live in america) and I also love my cousin and plan to marry her. The ancient Egyptians, in upper classes, almost exclusively married cousins (sometimes uncles and aunts which I agree is ****** up). This went on until the Greek era where the Greeks claimed it as a discouraged act (do not forget that the Greeks were homosexual by culture, soon to be or has already become an American part of life as well.) - very similar east vs west argument to the current state of the controversy.

In much of Asia and North Africa excluding parts of India more than 10% of marriages are between cousins. At least two US presidents that I know of have married their cousins; Franklin D Roosevelt and Martin van Buren. Also, it was extremely common for Jews to marry their cousins. I'm pretty sure it is still common among the Eastern European Jews. Einstien himself married his cousin. Same with some modern oil rich Arab countries. But the funny thing is, I am Egyptian (live in america) and I also love my cousin and plan to marry her. The ancient Egyptians, in upper classes, almost exclusively married cousins (sometimes uncles and aunts which I agree is ****** up). This went on until the Greek era where the Greeks claimed it as a discouraged act (do not forget that the Greeks were homosexual by culture, soon to be or has already become an American part of life as well.) - very similar east vs west argument to the current state of the controversy.

In much of Asia and North Africa excluding parts of India more than 10% of marriages are between cousins. At least two US presidents that I know of have married their cousins; Franklin D Roosevelt and Martin van Buren. Also, it was extremely common for Jews to marry their cousins. I'm pretty sure it is still common among the Eastern European Jews. Einstien himself married his cousin. Same with some modern oil rich Arab countries. But the funny thing is, I am Egyptian (live in america) and I also love my cousin and plan to marry her. The ancient Egyptians, in upper classes, almost exclusively married cousins (sometimes uncles and aunts which I agree is ****** up). This went on until the Greek era where the Greeks claimed it as a discouraged act (do not forget that the Greeks were homosexual by culture, soon to be or has already become an American part of life as well.) - very similar east vs west argument to the current state of the controversy.

Well Im glad Im not the only one feeling like this, ugh it feels good in a way, b/c Im not alone :(<br />
I have loved my cousin since the first time I saw him, when I was 7...We just recently reunited this weekend, it has been almost 30 yrs since we last seen each other. Anyways to make a long story relatively short. feelings were expressed on both sides, and what would u know, we both felt and feel the same way!!! His mom an my dad are brother and sister :( We live like 1200km away from each other.<br />
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Anyways, ya just like everyone here, I am in love with my cousin, my stomach has been turning since he left. I am a person that carries a lot of guilt, but the only guilt I feel, is as much as it is shunned upon in our society, I dont really give a flying #%@&...We were a lil intoxicated, but the feelings were there even with out the booze. Im just really, really messed up right now, i cant sleep or eat b/c I miss him so much, we are both born under the sign of cancer, I am 38 and he is 42. Apparently one of my friends said that someone told her, that I was hanging all over him this weekend, I just told her that I was drunk and he needed to hold me up, so when I told him he said, who cares, they never saw anything, cause we did have a few passionate kisses...<br />
Help me, Im in love with my cousin....

I'm passing through that to. In elementry skool i met this guy that was ayear younger than me i fell 4 him hard. Later i found out he was my cousin. At a party we were all drunk, me and himwere barley in middle skool. That night he almost kissed me. We tried to stay apart because of wat our family's would say but we couln't hid it. We are now in High school and today September 29 he kissed me. It was the first time we had shown affection toward each other after many years. It actually felt right for us to be doing that. The only bad thing is that his sister found out. She says she saw us and so she's trying to keep us apart. I don't want to be apart from him and i hope he feels the same way. I just hope his sister understands and lets us be happy.

youve just been soo..true to your self..so go on..<br />
nothing is wrong on loving a cousin...<br />
your family will understand ur situation...

Well, my mother despises my fathers family, so i really never knew them and now im 34 and hes 52 and we are slowly fallling inlove, i dont see him as a cousin i see him as a man and he doesnt see me as a cousin he sees me as a woman. is this our fault. we still havent meet we will meet and see what will happand, but until them we have are eyes on eachother but our mouth shout. we dont plan to have kids as i was already married and have two and he was married and has four of his own. so we are fine with that. relating to blood i would like to chat with a doctor to see if something might happan at first sexual contact, but i dont see anything wrong since kids is not in our plans... ever! but how about morals...we would like to speak to a preist as we do want to marry but like i said we are keeping it shout until we meet this october.... we always chat and tallk and online and forward pictures and all,. we miss eachother but how do you miss when we havent seen eachother, been with eachother, but yet we feel for eachother at the same time..... we are cousins. his mom and my dad are brothers n sisters. we are afriad of what our parents will say.... what do we do.... omg this is not even our fault....we where never raised as cousins so we are not cousins... we are man and woman...and falling inlove

Beautiful! Again I say beautiful! Go for it! Life is short! My experience with my 1st cousin was similar. Didn't remember her but reunited 28yrs later on facebook There was attraction in communications text,fb, then voice by phone. Our personality s meshed , Upon meeting physical attraction was there. She remembered me when I was maybe 8 years old. I remembered other cousins my own age but she was 2yrs younger at the time , way to young! The cousin factor only reassured security in trust. We would never hurt each other. Being that I am a Christian it was essential this relationship was with out compromise to Gods word. Cousin couples site lifted a great burden from me. Love was now without fault! Restrained only by the ignorant and unstudied. The vast majority of people have no explanation for why they feel discriminatory. c.c.com will widen there intellectual being. no laws broke here! nether is there sin! I will hear and respect the learned opinions as I would suggest you also. There is no intellectual basis to support ignorance. Selfishness is fact, of the disapprover's heart. You found love and Now live love, Now live life in peace enjoy life to it's fullest without sin. Let those who disagree exemplify perfect love in there own relationships? If they can't , may God convict their hearts and release the hate and cause the stones to drop from their hands.<br />
Faith,hope, trust for the best of life!...........

i have no idea what is going on ...i only know that me and my cousin are really deeply in love with each other since our younger time.i tot after he got married with another women, he will forget about me and so do i.But situation is getting worst now coz recently he has been calling me and we have shared almost every single little thing.we have admitted that we are still in love with each other after all this years.we cannot let go our old feelings.Now our LOVE tree have started to grow. we always think of each other every single day.we are scared of our respective family will come to know bout it.Why lives is so complicated....???

When I first told my mother that I was in love with her sisters son, she was very shocked to say the least. It took her some time to get used to the idea, and now says she would support our union if that is what we chose to do. I suggest you just tell your family, or flat out kiss him in front of every body at your holiday gathering! Then there would be nothing Else to tell. They will either come around to the idea or they won't. You have to decide which is more important, your love our your families blessing. What's the worst they can do? Family is forever. If my cousin and I were single, we would just tell everyone so we could be together. Good luck!

me and my cousin live behind closed doors. our families totally disagree with everything. we live together and so want to get married but its illegal in pennsylvania. The only family member that knows whats going on is my dad. He said its my life and if im happy then so be it. He only wants us to be happy. Now my mom and his dad totally disapprove! Even living together. But they think we are just sharing expenses. So outside of the house we are family, Inside we are lovers and are not ashamed of it! Sometimes it will cross my mind that its wrong but in my heart it is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I never felt so whole in my life! He completes me no matter how different we are. He irritates me to no end but the minute he looks at me i just melt! And he knows it cuz when he makes me mad he just gives me this look and im done for! LOL! So just follow your heart. If you and ur cousin want to be together you will do whatever it takes to be happy. Even if it means pretending to just be normal around family and friends who dont agree to it. We have some friends that know actually its his ex inlaws and they really dont care. Just hope hes happy. So please, if your cousin makes u happy, dont let him go. Cause it will be the worst thing you have ever done! These stories and comments on here have really inspired me and changed my whole attitude about being with my cousin.

I am In love with my first cousin it was love at first sight.... im 26 he is 24 we are very down to earth people..very loving tender and caring... this is the best thing that has ever happen to me in my life... we are so into eachother every day I see him I light up like there are fire works going off. I remember the first time we told oneanother I love you. To make a long story short ummm.. we where togeather everyday up untile now, I told my mom she is cool with it my dad well he will come around. My cousin and I share the same grandfather. We know who he is a little bit. we dont really know him like a grandfather so thats cool i dont know that side of the family nor does he so thats amazing.. lol.. his dad and my dad are half brothers they dont like eachother we dont talk to them very much, its been like that, they have there on issues, this had nonthing to do with us, so another pluse. anyway we live togather with kids I have 2 son he has one and it working out very well, I never knew what love could be like untile now we are very romatic passionate our respect level is very high we love music and are very artistic when it come to doing things in life we are very blessed. He is My twin flame as far as soulmates go we know things that other would never know about eachother two very old souls, it's something that was always there. If anyone wants to talk and need advice you can e-mail me at spanishrose1515@yahoo.com

When I was 17, I went to live with my aunt and uncle for about 5 months due to family issues. There were also several cousins living there as well. when I first me one particular cousin, 16 yo and an absolute beauty, it was love at first sight. We soon discovered we had more in common than anyone else we have ever met. We began spending all our time together. Our talks soon became more and more intimate. She liked to talk about sex and romance a lot. I certainly had no trouble obliging these conversations. I had a hard time discerning if she was talking in general or about us in particular.<br />
This went on for the entire 5 months I was there. One day I just could not take it any more and decided to tell her how I felt. We were on the front porch stairs. I told her I am in love with her like a girlfriend rather than just family type love. She stared at me for about 4 minutes, got up, and left. That was really the last time I saw her, except for a few family gatherings. Here it is, 40 years later, and we have reconnected. We met for coffee and the first thing she did was kiss me on the lips. All the feelings of love came rushing back. We have done a few activities since the, concerts, dinner, etc. I do realize we have to get to know each other again as we are much more mature. Now I am torn. I am afraid to tell her how I feel (too early anyway). I must be with this woman. Please give me any advice you have. By the way, she told me the reason she just left the porch that day was because she was very confused and did not know what to do. (16 & 17 remember)<br />
Please help me with any experiences you may have had......Thank you