I'm Going Crazy!

I feel like I'm going crazy, I miss him like crazy :(!!!

I swear i try my best to forget him and i distract myself as much as possible, but yet i still dream of him..and so i wake up thinking about him..ughh..

I have deleted all the songs and threw away everything that reminded me of him, yet i can't get him out of my head...I feel like i'm going crazy.. I love him so much, i feel like without having someone to love i'm nothing, and so i think of him once in a while, but then i stop and distract myself. But somehow ALWAYS someone ends up mentioning him and it bothers me so much, because I've been trying to get him out of my head completely for years!!!!

Him and his girlfriend broke up, but it still doesn't change anything. I feel like i'm going to stay this way for the rest of my life..like i'll never get rid of him, like he'll haunt my dreams for the rest of my life, and that scares me :/ It scares me that I'll miss him til I die :'(
I know he loves me I feel it when we're together, but he won't do anything about it, so in my head "He doesn't love me anymore"and that makes me sad.

I need advice, what to do about him being inside my head all day 24/7?:/
J05209 J05209
22-25, F
3 Responses Jan 7, 2013

well theres no easy around it but just bite the bullet and tell him .or get drunk with him and if all goes south then blame the booze :) but all in all do it the way that makes ya happy :) this pain you have is cause you know him and you being together is a 'maybe' and a maybe can control you for a very long time and the only way to cure such a thing is with an answer and for better or for worse at least you will have those answers you want :)

Thank you so much for the advice :) but guess what? I don't think about him as often because I began to date again, I'm so happy, and glad that I didn't tell him about my feelings, because right now i can honestly say.. I'm better off without him :) ...thanks to everyone's advice and yours, i'm ok .thank u!

You are stronger than you think. You are somebody! You are deserving of receiving the same love that you are willing to give. You have to believe this!!!! It's normal to experience the emotional and mental pains of yearning to be with the one you love. You must face your fears and allow the healing process to begin. The healing process concerning the affairs of the heart may take awhile but heal you must so you wont be bound captive by holding onto the memories of what you want which you cannot have. I bet he has moved on and so should you.

Thank you so much for your advice it means a lot. Yes he has moved on, and I'm on my way to moving on also. I met this guy so i'm quite happy, I guess things begin to change once you're ready for them to change :)

Wow! You are in a tough situation there! If it were mutual that would be one thing, but if he doesn't want to pursue the relationship with you, then my suggestion is try dating others. Have you tried talking to him about how you feel?

No I haven't, I've been too shy because how about if he doesn't feel the way I do :/ . I think I'm just gonna give up. If he doesn't make a move then I'll just move on.