16Today is her 16th birthday. She should be happy, but she's spent the better part of the morning crying. It's her love life that has her down. She's broken up with her first real boyfriend for the 3rd time. Hopefully this is the end of that.
He's an ***. He does this whole "just want to be friends " thing whenever he's going to cheat on her and bang some girl. I'd like to smash his face in.
Anyway, my baby won't give it up and I guess he wants it more than her. I'm glad she hasn't caved to his ploys and manipulation games. She's way too good for that loser. To know him for what he is(a kid with no dreams ambition drive or education )and to see her with him has always made me a little frustrated and sad.
While I hate seeing her hurting I know that this is something she needs to go through. She grows and matures. All I can do is love, comfort, support, and advise. Throw in some hugs, a kiss or two, and pray she finally sheds her feelings for the stupid no good crapfaced dickwad.
I told her she needs to try and see that she's not losing anything but rather she's gaining experience and a new beginning. I'm not always good at the whole comforting part of my job. I think I get too factual to seem sympathetic enough for a girl her age. I am trying though. It's just hard for me because I hate that kid.
I love her though. I concentrate on that.
I still want to punch his stupid face off .......
Excuse me, I need to go hug someone again.
She's so pretty! I love my baby ....
TheHiker 41-45, M 12 Responses 7 Nov 25, 2012