The Past Is In The Past
People do things that they later wish they hadn't. It's OK by me. We are all learning and evolving creatures. I love my friends regardless of what has happened in their past. Their past is not their present and it isn't an indication of their future. I take everything one day at a time, one person at a time and one situation at a time. If I love you, then I love you. If I don't then I don't. But your past behavior is something that has happened. The only way it becomes an issue is if you bring it up and make it part of your present.